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Sorry, just a vent I really need to let out
So guys I'm facing a bit of a problem which I honestly think is really stupid and you probably will too, but it's really bothering me.
So I'm obviously going out with my boyfriend, Jim.  He's great and all but we never actually got a chance to go out because neither of us drive so we require our parents to bring us places.  We haven't seen eachother in a month and whenever I actually invite Jim to something that he can get a ride, he tells me days or even hours before we're supposed to do it that he can't.  And he doesn't actually ask me to do stuff with him.
So recently I started talking to this girl that I used to be friends with in like 6th grade.  I was catching up with her and talking to her and she's like the female version of me.  So for days we've been talking and I'm kinda coming to like her.  And she's actually being flirty with me and says I'm cute (trust me I take that very seriously because I consider myself an ugly pile of crap).
But after noticing that this one girl can be better acting towards me in a few weeks than my boyfriend can be in two months, is Jim even really worth it?
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Sorry, just a vent I really need to let out So guys I'm facing

4 faves · 9 comments · Jul 20, 2013 7:33pm

CharliesTheName

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luv_pandas276 · 1 decade ago
Aw this is so interesting hun! Clearly, this girl does like you and may or may not want to become more than friends. If Jim isn't trying to make an effort to go see you and go on dates, then maybe he isn't so interested anymore. In my opinion, i would give the girl a chance especially if her compliments mean so much to you. If you need any help just comment on my page and ill give you my email! Stay Strong, Kaelyn <3
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ZoĆ«* · 1 decade ago
Do you and Jim go to the same school? Because it's natural to drift apart over the summer, but it's not fair that he's not making an effort when you are are. Maybe you should call him and talk about it, then ask if he wants to take a break. If this goes well, you'll be able to see this girl as though you're in a relationship. And maybe, once the summer is over, if you still have feelings for him, give it a shot with Jim again. Good luck :)
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barakat* · 1 decade ago
Dude, it honestly sounds like currently Jim is not worth the effort that you're putting in. While he sounds wonderful, so does this other girl. Especially if you think you're beginning to like her. I think you should give Jim a chance for a while longer, but if it's to no good, there's nothing wrong in simply breaking it off and going for this other girl. She sounds pretty cool. No harm in that.

Good luck with her or him, whoever you choose.

((also you're not an ugly pile of crap go away))
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CharliesTheName · 1 decade ago
Thanks. Yeah I'm probably going to wait until the end of the summer and decide if Jim is actually worth it. And thank you now I feel like a male model *rips off shirt as the sun sets behind me and doves fly over my head*
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barakat* · 1 decade ago
That sounds like a good plan.

Dam.n those be some nice doves
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MissLovely · 1 decade ago
If you're interested in her, go for it! Tell your boyfriend how you feel because to me it seems like he isn't making half as much of an effort in your relationship as you are.
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CharliesTheName · 1 decade ago
Thank you! I just might
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ArianaGrandeButera · 1 decade ago
Personally, I think it that the girl seems like she'd be better for you, if she's being pretty flirty and Jim isn't really making much of an effort (that's the impression I got) and it's not stupid, everyone goes through these problems!
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CharliesTheName · 1 decade ago
Thanks. I'll see what happens. Maybe I'll give Jim 'til the end of the summer. Thanks :)
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