6 faves · 63 comments · Apr 16, 2013 6:47pm
XxXxPerfectlyImperfectXxXx
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1 decade ago
Well hun, you werent even together? And youre only 14? I dont want to judge you, but it's just....you could get pregnant. I dont think you should have made a choice like that when youre still a baby yourself. then theres the STD''s. 14, and you could have an std? I read tat yoiu didnt use protection for the first couple minutes, but thats all it takes. lastly, you now lost something you can never get back. to someone you werent even with. That was something you were supposede to save for someone who really mattered.
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crazyshaelie
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1 decade ago
It's just . People make it out to be more than what it is, but really DOESNT come from love or feelings, but sexual drive and lebido. If you were safe, and it wasn't pressured, don't feel bad or freak out.
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poodlelomein35
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1 decade ago
If you wanna talk I'm here :)
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QueenOfClovers
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1 decade ago
.....i cant even get a guy to look at me :P ....but seriously I hope he didnt pressure you..
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solyh*
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1 decade ago
Do you regret it? Did he pressure you into doing it?
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SarahUrsini
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1 decade ago
protect yourself! That's the best thing to do! use everything you can, condoms, birth control if you can get it. If your parents are understanding or if you have friends parents who can help you out you should talk to them! just remember to always be protected and cautious
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sparkleyunicorns7
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1 decade ago
i lost mine at 15 to a guy I ha been dating for almost 2 years on and off, we used protection, and everything was fine. be safe and careful and don't get yourself too worked up about things. if you're not happy with having done that then you'll be able to get over it with time
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Travis Allred*
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1 decade ago
sits down.. reads comments.. sorry hun just take everyone's advice is all I can say
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italiangirl556
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1 decade ago
Here's what you need to do from a medical point: in about a month you need to go to a free sexual health clinic to make sure you don't have any std's and are not pregnant, if you are pregnant that is your choice what you do but i would encourage you to keep it and give it up for adoption. From the mental persepective: what you did was your choice and you can't take it back. It should have been with someone you really love, but from what I'm reading you weren't in love. I reccomend that for now on when you decide to have with someone, you are truly in love with them.
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MaieMaie
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1 decade ago
I was 14 when I lost mine, and feel kind of guilty for losing my virginity at such a young age. Now, I have a health s-x life. It's not really to worry about, if you're protected. But..How old are you?
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youll_never_guess
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1 decade ago
14 and i feel soo guilty
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MaieMaie
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1 decade ago
It was your choice, and when it first happens, you don't really feel bad. It's afterwards,when you're older, that you feel wrong. But all you have to do is not worry about it. If you don't worry about it, it won't be a problem.
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cotoncandy_616
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1 decade ago
Talk to me then!
18 and experienced:)
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Lauren🌸*
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1 decade ago
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CIFDIcQfY5g
HAHAHHAHAHAHAHA OMFG AHAHAHHAHAHAHAHA
sorry, I found this hilarious.
if you used protection, you'll be okay
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squishy37
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1 decade ago
"you just had sexxx, did it feel so good?" hahaha
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blakeboy
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1 decade ago
morning after pill saved my life
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HannahKennison
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1 decade ago
child, dont worry about it, nothings for sure if you didnt use a c0ndom but hey, just dont fret, think of it as nothing being wrong. i was 13 when i lost mine, it was a big deal then, a year later, never even seeing the guy again, its really not.
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youll_never_guess
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1 decade ago
but didnt you feel guilty??
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Cooper527
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1 decade ago
don't freak out. It was your choice in the first place.
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SecretLife96
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1 decade ago
Why are you freaking out? It's not supposed to be a bad experience. Sure you're young, but you'll be okay, promise(: I'm here if you wanna talk!
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Cats_Are_My_Only_Friends*
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1 decade ago
dude.............. Do your parents know?
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youll_never_guess
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1 decade ago
noooo they think im a good kid....
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Cats_Are_My_Only_Friends*
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1 decade ago
you have to tell them
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ladybuglove
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1 decade ago
you do not have to tell them
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Cats_Are_My_Only_Friends*
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1 decade ago
uuuuuuuuuhhhhhh its best if you do.......
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ladybuglove
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1 decade ago
Uhh, i am just fine, and i have not told my dad .
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whereismymind
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1 decade ago
Oh honey, I'm sure you feel guilty enough so I'm not going to go all mom mode on you. I'm 14 too and sure I think about having s/x but I wouldn't dream of doing if now. I heard you aren't dating the guy. Why did you do it. Do you know the guy well enough to give him something you will never get back?
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youll_never_guess
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1 decade ago
i know him plenty well and i dont know thats why im like sad you could say because everyone says it is suppose to be special and he is far from special
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whereismymind
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1 decade ago
Well you can't take back what you've done. Just don't go giving yourself like that to people who don't even matter. Do you still talk to the guy?
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whereismymind
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1 decade ago
Well you can't take back what you've done. Just don't go giving yourself like that to people who don't even matter. Wait until marriage
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youll_never_guess
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1 decade ago
well its already gone soo cant wait untill marrage i guess
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whereismymind
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1 decade ago
True, do you still talk to the guy?
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youll_never_guess
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1 decade ago
nooo hahaha
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ladybuglove · 1 decade ago
No need to worry, it'll be okay, be safe, and think more before you do stuff, no need to feel guilty
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