And isn't it WEIRD 

how when you're FAT

In front of your face: everyone tells you that you look healthy, nice, and have beautiful curves

But behind your back: people  are repulsed and consider you a disgusting, overeating lazy slob

And when you're TOO skinny

In front of your face: people lecture you about starvation, tell you that you look too thin and gross, and that you should gain weight

But behind your back: people think OMG I wish I was that skinny, obsess about food, read weight loss magazines, count calories, work out, and try to become THAT skinny