MissOpportunist · 1 decade ago
Honestly, I really don't knoe what to tell you. That was a really crappy thing of her to do, though! She shouldn't have done that if she realy cared about you the way you cared about her. I just want you to know that if you ever want to talk, I'll be here for you, yeah :) I'm so sorry tht you're in such ahrrible situation xxxxxx
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8iwishyouweremine8 · 1 decade ago
aww, thank you <3 x
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MissOpportunist · 1 decade ago
No worries, hun <3 xxxxx
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SmilesForMiles · 1 decade ago
Hey! Ok, your best friend should not have done that, because you should NEVER have a guy go between best friends. The guy does not know, but it was pretty cruel of your friend to do that. I think you should text her. And just write what you feel. Or write a letter and tell her to read it later. You will feel a lot better to get it off your chest, I promise. Telling her how you feel does not mean breaking them up, it means letting your best friend know how you feel, and how she should not do something like that again. Just say "I want you to be happy, but I hate this." You should NOT have to be afraid to tell a friend this. She will understand. If she does not, she is not a real friend, if you care more about her feelings then she does yours. But i know that she will understand. She seems like a good person.
But never let a guy get inbetween friendships. It is not worth it. Friends are forever. Boyfriends are the heat of the moment type things. Just appreciate other guys you do have in your life. The ones unnoticed sometimes mean the most. Have your friend invite some new guys and mingle! This is about being young and fun.
But most of all, confront your friend. tell her everything you feel. If you actually talk, tell her to let you talk and then she can speak. Texting or a hand written letter might be easier to let her know. But dont hold back. Speak like you did above.
Hope I helped! :) comment on my profile if you need more advice!
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8iwishyouweremine8 · 1 decade ago
I can't believe you care so much to write this.. :') Thank you. The problem is, there was an incident with a couple in my school.. This guy and a girl were dating, and the guys best friend ruined it by telling her that he liked her. Then, everyone got all mad at him for wrecking their relationship. That's what I'm afraid of. I want to tell her something but even when I give a little clue like "Aww thats cute of him.", or something like that, she doesn't get it, which i don't blame her. I feel like right now, I can't do anything about it.. Cause I want them both to be happy which is where they are now..
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SmilesForMiles · 1 decade ago
Haha You are so welcome! (again!) haha! I am so sorry you are in this situation right now. It must be hard. Just do whatever you think is right! I still think you should tell your friend. Tell her you do NOT want their relationship to end by any means, but it hurt you on what she did. Trust me she will understand! I think she would want you to be happy then holding this all in!
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MissOpportunist · 1 decade ago
This is great advice! Well done, I agree :) xx

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wittyteacher · 1 decade ago
It doesn't sound like you really have a choice; they're going out so you have to wait if you want to salvage your relationships with both of them.
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mainechick · 1 decade ago
It really sucks that she broke your promise...if your crush and best friend break up, then I think you have every right to date him because she already broke one rule so why can't you?? You are still friends with her when she is dating your crush, so why can't you date her ex? If she was a real friend she would just want u to be happy
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8iwishyouweremine8 · 1 decade ago
thank you for taking the time do read and reply.. :) thanks for the advice too. i want them to stay together because i want them to be happy but again i hate it..
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