xXkEEPMOVINGFORWARdXx · 1 decade ago
I don't want to be a bother, and obviously there are people with way worse problems than me but I feel like I'm invisible. It's mostly small stuff but it feels like a lot all together. My friends keep secrets from me, my family take pictures without me, my crush knows I exist but doesn't like me back, my family (my real family, I'm adopted) doesn't even bother calling or coming to see me, and sometimes I'll be completely fine. But the next second I'll be thinking of my dead dad, grandma, grandpa, and absent druggie mother and tears will be streaming down my face. My step family doesn't know anything is wrong and my friends don't get it. I'll be happy for a while then a slightest bad thing happens and it's like I never was. Sometimes I wish I was dead. Others I wish someone understood. My aunt says I have trust issues and my pa says I put up a wall.
What does that even mean? Is something wrong with me? Am I just dramatic? How can I know who I'm supposed to be and still not know who I am? I don't expect anyone to have all the answers, I just want someone to know, to understand.
Thanks anyway. :/
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notsosupergirl · 1 decade ago
i just want someone i can tell everything to. some who wont leave me, because quite frankly im tied of people leaving me. i really cant take it anymore i want everything to be over... im not good enough
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candie12345 · 1 decade ago
don't worry I think you're good enough :)
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Laceybrooke22 · 1 decade ago
My boyfriend & I just broke up, we were together for 6 months. I told him how I was feeling cause I felt like we were growing apart, I told him all of my secrets. Even the bad ones. He blew up on me telling me that he was better then ,e & that I'm drama because of the way my life is. He told me I could come to him about anything, my moms a drunk so I had to call him when she came home drunk & ran me down. Or that I don't see my Dad, & I tell him how awful that makes me feel. But, it hurt knowing the whole time we were dating he thought I was drama & not in his standards. Sorry but I don't know what to do. Should I text him & ask him why he said that? Er just leave him be & never talk to him again? Cause everyday I pick up my phone like I'm gunna call him but I never do. What do I do about this??? -Thank you.
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redandblackbaby · 1 decade ago
Try to be strong, don't text him or anything... You aren't drama because of the way your family is, and don't let anyone make you feel that way. If he judges u 4 things that you can't change then go your separate ways and do your best to move on. The right person will come :)
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Laceybrooke22 · 1 decade ago
Thhank youu.
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xXHelloFasinationXx · 1 decade ago
My crush is the biggest jerk in the world, he's literally straight out of movie, I want to hate him so bad because he treats me like crap, but then he has these rare moments when we smiles at me, & or says something funny, where I know it's absolutely impossible for me to hate him, or even try forget about him.. I really don't want to like him, but I don't know how not too.. I've been trying to be interested in other guys, but I always find myself smiling back at my original crush's stupid face. ugh.
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horselover4ever · 1 decade ago
i love my ex. so much. its been since june and im not over him. i dont know if i ever will be. and im miserable. i love him
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emilygm* · 1 decade ago
If he's not with another girl, you should tell him how you feel. Maybe he feels the same way :)
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horselover4ever · 1 decade ago
been there, done that. more than once too
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AlexisCoral · 1 decade ago
No matter how happy I would think I was, I would always end up feeling emptyness in my chest. It felt like there was a hole, I could literally feel it throbbing. Constantly asking myself questions that either never have an answer, or I already know but I just don't want to believe. Like I'm basically walking right through life in a daze. Sometimes, it wouldn't be as bad, I would be able to ignore it. But once I was alone.. that's when it would hit the hardest. It would never fully dissapear. Just fade. That's what I feel like and I don't know why. I would think that I had a good day, but I would get that feeling and just quit. If you have anything for this.. It would be really nice. Thank you.
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CalculusWasTough123 · 1 decade ago
I'm sorry for being annoying but I have a super quick question. Ever since superbowl Sunday I haven't been able to post any quotes, whenever I try to it says 'please tag your quote with two categories' but I don't know what that means. If someone could respond and tell me what to do I would really appreciate it!
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polinaagoldberg* · 1 decade ago
all you have to do is where it says to type in the tags you write a few things that your quote is about. say you wrote a quote from mean girls you can tag: funny, meangirls, movie etc. hope this helps. if not, comment on my profile and i'll explain in more detail :)
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Sapphire101 · 1 decade ago
Me and one of my best friends have fell out. I feel like I'm losing everyone I love. Most girls just look at me and smile then turn around and talk behind my back. My best friend went back to her other best friend and I always feel awkward around them. And to top things off me and my mum are arguing a lot these days. I've stopped cutting and vomiting my food back up but I'm so tempted to start again. Not like anybody cares, right? I just need a break. I'm sorry for ranting, I needed to get that out of my system. Thanks for asking and caring You honestly are an awesome person. Love you x
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redandblackbaby · 1 decade ago
I failed a Midterm with a D which led my parents to make me feel like sh*t, they believe that B's are failing, so imagine the disapointment when my math Miderm is a D. Everyone expects me to support them and kiss their @sses daily, while all I ever get is crap. I'm on the competive cheer team, and I'm the huge joke of the team. I don't get to perform or cheer, so I sit on the side like a dumb@ss and cheer all the girls on. I don't know how or why I got the team... Maybe to support the rest of the girls, or maybe because the coach thought it would be a funny little joke. My friend just tried to commit suicide and she almost suceeded... She's ok, they got her heart started again yesterday morning. Her girlfriend broke up with her to be with a guy. My parents are going to get a divorce... I don't really know what to do with myself, and of course, all of this crap doesn't seem that bad when your reading it... so...
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wanderer* · 1 decade ago
almost everyone at my school thinks I'm mentally ill just because I have a learning disability and am in special education. I'm not in special ed that much anymore though. They all think that i'm weird because I'm a rebel. and not the good kind of weird. I'm teased because i go and talk to the school councelor every now and then. but they all think i'm happy and rich. they're wrong. just because my dad runs a few radio stations does not mean i'm happy and rich. they think I have the perfect life.

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zebrazebrazebra · 1 decade ago
my dad died of cancer last august and now my mom has breast cancer that's not curable so shes gonna die too. and i have this woman who's like my older sister and i told her something that i thought she should know (she's called a b**** a lot by my friends) and she was really upset but she pretended she was ok when she knew people were around. then i saw her and she didnt know i was there and she was like emotionally breaking down. and i felt so so so bad and i just want her to tell me when she's not ok cuz i tell her everything. and i love her and i just want her to be happy
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MeMyselfandHim · 1 decade ago
everyone around me thinks i'm this bubbly little thing that never lets a tear roll down her cheek. But i actually feel lonely and lost and i just... i just... i don't know. maybe i just want someone to care. Maybe i want someone to hug me tight and tell me 'everything's going to be fine'. Maybe i want someone to hold my hand. and Maybe, i don't want to be alone anymore. but obviously that's just too much to ask. i'm sorry.
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fibomidget · 1 decade ago
Same here- Everyone thinks I'm just the nice girl or just the funny girl and I'm expected to listen to all of their problems. I wouldn't mind that but if I have any problems nobody really listens. And if I'm upset there must be something wrong with me- I can't just have a bad day or be in a bad mood. Oh sorry for the rant btw- sometimes I just like to vent x
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MeMyselfandHim · 1 decade ago
I'm sorry you have to feel the way i do because it's a horrible feeling and honestly, no one should ever feel this way. i get it. God knows how much i get it. Nobody ever listens. Nobody. and you know, maybe we need someone to listen to us for a change. it's not fair. it never is.
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redandblackbaby · 1 decade ago
I'm in the same situation... whenever I have a bad day, people think I'm on drugs or something... Like, don't I get a day to be p*ssed too??? If u ever wanna tlk, comment on my profile :)
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MeMyselfandHim · 1 decade ago
in everyone's eyes, i can never have a bad day. never have a lonely moment. when in reality, that lost and lonely are just apart of my personality. No one has ever cared enough to actually see that. If you ever wanna talk just comment on my profile too. x
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millina97 · 1 decade ago
i'm here for you. i'm pretty much in your same situation... just contact me, k?
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MeMyselfandHim · 1 decade ago
if things ever get too much, i'm sure to contact you. i promise. <3
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bella is a penguin * · 1 decade ago
I don't feel pretty enough. I feel ugly and fat and not worthy to be in the popular group at school. I feel wrong in the group and I feel that I am the outsider or third wheel in my group of friends. I just feel plain ugly.
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xXHelloFasinationXx · 1 decade ago
I feel the exact same way.. suckiest feeling ever.. especially when everyone has a boyfriend or a million guys liking them, & I just sit there & feel worthless..
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PopcornSqueak · 1 decade ago
me too, all my friends are tall and gorgeous, all have boyfriends i'm short, ugly and single, they don't invite me anywhere anymore i feel left out and as if i'm not a part of the group anymore:(
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Sapphire101 · 1 decade ago
This is exactly how I feel, like tomorrow all my friends and their boyfriends are going round to someone's house for a sleepover whilst I'm gonna be sitting here at home, crying in my pj, locked in my room with my laptop and music :/
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crazylifelover · 1 decade ago
I'm always that one person that is always "forgotten" on the invites to stuff...the one person that just barely misses the cut for something. My friends are great but I don't feel like any of them get me. If that makes sense. I feel really alone and no one seems to understand what i'm going through. Also, one of my bestfriends is kinda leaving my/our group of friends and going to a group i used to be in, but in all reality they are just a bunch of that talk crap behind each others back. But i really miss her. I keep wanting to talk to her but now I don't even feel close enough to talk about it. She was never my BEST friend per say, but just a close friend. She's even starting to change into this new group of people, like being really mean and bitchy to people. Ugh...sorry for my long rant lol but thanks for doing this. You are a really inspirational person:) Thanks
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NikkiBeKillin · 1 decade ago
Also, I feel completely alone all the time, and I don't know who to talk to. I used to feel comfortable on witty, but now it has gotten very judge mental, and I don't know what to do.
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NikkiBeKillin · 1 decade ago
Today at school, during my off hour I went into the locker room, went to the furthest corner where no one could see me, and I cried for an hour and a half. Best part? No one even noticed I was gone, or that I just got done sobbing.
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LostGirls* · 1 decade ago
You are amazing <3 do you know that?
okay so what I have to say is : I am 100 % sure I have fallen for one of my best guy friend and I kind of think that he may like me in return but if I was to go and ask him out it could possible ruin my friendship with his. and he also has this friend that can be really mean and if my friend was to go and tell him then I would never ever be able to live it down. so I could really use some help on what the hell I should do!

- Katrina
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InOneMoment · 1 decade ago
You're a hero, you know that? people here need this. good for you. I'd say something but I have nothing... I just had therapy and I love my therapist so much omfg literally she makes things make sense even if I don;t talk about them. what was the point of this? idrk. but yeah.
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HGlover12 · 1 decade ago
I started dating this guy that i really like but he doesnt talk to me. ive said something about it twice and I dont want to again cuz i dont want to come off as annoying. I was thinking about breaking up with him....but idk what I would say. Im also scared on how hes gonna respond, also, he bought be one of those flower things for valentines day...that are handed out ON valentines day and I dont want it to be awkward if we had already broken up. His friends are all like he talks about u all the time and stuuff and he says the sweetest things over text. then at school he doesnt say a word to me. BUT he talks to my friends....all the time...honestly im stuck. and if u could help, that'd be great. thank you if u read this<3
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redandblackbaby · 1 decade ago
OK so the worst possible thing you could do in this sitution is break up with him on or around valentines day. It makes you look b*tchy. But if he's not talking to you at school, you need to talk to him first, see if he tries to purposely ignore and avoid you.
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HGlover12 · 1 decade ago
He'll like walk by me in the hallways without turning my way or looking up...and i like feel like hes the only guy who will ever like me cuz im sort of am awkward person haha
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redandblackbaby · 1 decade ago
So maybe surprise him one day in the hallway, like walk up to him and maybe say hey or hug him.
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AnotherAverageTeenageGirl · 1 decade ago
My friend has been a total flurb(b****) to me lately. Whenever I say something she has to comment and say something that puts me down. Most of the time she'll make the same comment moments later. I don't even talk around her anymore because of her comments and she always just starts talking over me. She complains to me 24/7 about her boyfriend "cheating" on her (and he never is she just wants the drama) but when I tried to talk to her about this guy who torments me and won't leave me alone she just tells me I'm being overdramatic and need to get over myself. I can't just stop being her friend either, I go to a small school with less than 40 kids in my class. I don't know what to do anymore because I'll talk to her about it and she'll get better for 3 days but then go back to normal. I'm tired of being treated like I'm worthless by someone who is supposed to be my friend.
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redandblackbaby · 1 decade ago
I used to have a friend like that, until I confronted her and told her she was a motherf*cking b*tch who needed to get a new @ss kisser. You need to take control of your life. Shake her off. You can talk to me, or anyone else who will treat you like you MATTER. She should NOT be the center of your universe. You can't stick around with her just because she's your "only friend". If she won' treat you right, she is NOT a friend. Secondly... what is going on with that guy that's... tormenting you? Is he a stalker??? You should talk to your parents about it, if it gets really out of hand. You cannot keep that to yourself.
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jimmy365 · 1 decade ago
GET OUT OF THAT SITUATION NOW. When someone shows you who they are, believe them! She does not need your love, find a new friend.
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AnotherAverageTeenageGirl · 1 decade ago
I can't just get out of the situation. I was in the situation before with another classmate and I left and I became friends with her, when she wasn't a flurb. If I stop hanging out with her I won't have anyone to hang out with and I need a friend because of other situations. I know I should, and I want too, but I can't. That's my problem.
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redandblackbaby · 1 decade ago
Look, you might think I'm lying here, but about 5 months ago, I was besties with a total b*tch that would walk all over me daily, treat me like crap, and expect me to suck up to her anyways. I thought I wouldn't have any friends if I lost her but it turns out, a lot more people talk to me now, I actually don't mind hanging out with friends because they are REAL friends, not hurtfull friends. You have to at least try to maybe tell her how you don't want to only talk about her problems and her life. At least tell her that you have feelings too.
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AnotherAverageTeenageGirl · 1 decade ago
I don't think you're lying at all. Its not that I believe I won't have any friends, because I do have other friends, I have quite a few friends besides her that I talk to all the time. I'm afraid of leaving her as a friend because that isn't my problem(as I said, I've done it before). My problem is that she is the only person in any of my classes that I can talk too. It wouldn't bother me not to talk to anyone but I share the majority of my classes with that guy. Okay so this guy.... I don't know how to explain the situation... He isn't stalkerish per say but he doesn't ever leave me alone. He acts like we are still in middle school and always throws things at me and always has to make rude comments towards me and he hasn't ever done anything to me to make me be afraid of him, but I am. I get nervous being in the hallway alone and see him walking towards me. If there at least someone there with me I'm better. It doesn't stop the comments but it makes me feel better. I have told people about it but they all brush it off as just how he is. Everyone I talk to knows how I feel about him, and I have told most of my teachers. I tried to tell a school official about it but they didn't listen to me, all they did was say they would look into it but nothing happened. I tried telling my dad about it but he just assumed I was over reacting and left the conversation. If I stop talking to my 'friend' then the guy will only get worse. So I can't just stop talking to her, but I don't want to be treated like crap either. So I'm stuck /:
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