69 faves · 12 comments · Feb 6, 2013 11:54am
ChyGain17
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1 decade ago
this happened to me. almost exactly the same, then i broke it off and called it for a break he ended it completely the next day. i felt sad and lonely but after a day or two it felt amazing to not be brought down by him and to not be controlled. your friend will get through it tell her to break it off he wont go through with it. <3 hope for the best. please let her read this
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pandabear33
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1 decade ago
in school today we had a guest speaker come and talk to us about domestic and dating violence. the shelter really helps a lot of people. you should really have your friend talk to an adult or call one of those shelters.
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likemillionares
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1 decade ago
You should talk to an adult. I knowww, everyone says that, but it might help.
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cheetah678
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1 decade ago
I'm not the person...it's my friend
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likemillionares
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1 decade ago
i mean like for her. Because she doesnt seem like she wants to tell anyone about it, but for her safety you should. Sorry for the confusion. :)
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loveisbeautiful25
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1 decade ago
You and her close friends need to talk to him, try to knock some sense into this kid. She's in a bad spot, so just always be their for her.
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cheetah678
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1 decade ago
But the thing is she doesn't want to get help. We've tried getting her to agree but she wont listen. I think she actually thinks he'd harm himself
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foREVerXyoung28
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1 decade ago
I went through the same thing before but for 2 years and trust me, it feels so damn good to get away from it all for good!
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jahan
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1 decade ago
if its that serious, you honestly need to tell the police. they'll get him away and give him help and her too
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BringMeTheEric
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1 decade ago
Dump him, he's a pussssssy. He won't kill himself anyways.
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cheetah678
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1 decade ago
Ok maybe not right away, but this guy lost his dad this year to cancer so it's not really a good year for him anyways. When you lose someone that close to you you're already at rock bottom so losing another person could be the endpoint.
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justwhipit · 1 decade ago
Ok This may feel bad but i think in this case if you really care then i sugest going to her parents and if that doesnt work then she must be willing to change herself....i know it sucks but people who go to guys like that usually feel lonely and want someone who makes them feel special no mater what the price is. try talking to her and try to step into her shoes... when taking to her make her feel like your with her and not against ok. last thing is if it gets extreamly bad and he actually abuse her physically then you get as many adults involved as you can ( i know it sucks). good luck your a great friend :D
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