Laneyloo · 1 decade ago
Thank you so much you 2(: I knew I could always count on my witty friends to help me!

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Till_Death_Do_Us_Part · 1 decade ago
Well, i can try to help. You might just need to sit her down, and explain to her. Explain your feelings for him, tell her your really trust this boy, and that you want her to meet him, and all that good stuff. Thats what i did with my husband when i wanted to intruduce him to my dad. (of course he wasnt my husband then) but he understood. And im sure your mom will too if you just let her know exactly how you feel about this kid. I mean i dont know, ive never really had to deal with mom things. Ive always just had my dad. Im not saying that this is gonna work, but its worth a shot!!(: Good luck hun!!!(:
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wallenbee · 1 decade ago
Hmm well I'm kind of in a long distance relationship, except it's not official. We've been "talking" for about 2 years now, so maybe I can help. My mom knows about him so when he comes to California, I get to go see him. What I did before I actually told my mom is I would subtly drop his name into conversation, like I'd say, "oh yes my friend Nick likes that show" or ssomething along those lines, that way she'd get used to hearing his name. Then, once I was done with that I would talk about him nonstop. Everytime I texted him I made sure my mom knew who I was texting, or skyping, or talking on the phone with. That way she'd realize something was obviously going on. If he flew out to Montana, would he be staying at your house? I don't really know how you could ask about that, but I guess once your mom realizes that you two are a couple, you could slowly strart saying things like "I really want to see him" or "I wish he could come here" just so she could warm up to the idea and you could kind of get an idea of how she'd feel about it. This is what I'd do, it's worked so far with my mom, but all moms are different I guess. Good luck! (:
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