So I saw this quote:

'Idg why us guys always have to make the first move, text first, say i love you first, and do everything first. How is that fair?
I mean I'm cool with it but it doesnt make sense to me, so enlighten me please'

and I thought I'd share the answer to this question with everyone.

Girls are scared of getting hurt, of not being wanted.
We are terrified of making the first move and getting rejected.
By waiting for a guy to make the first move, it proves to us that we are wanted and that he wanted to make a move - he didn't just go along because we started it.
If we don't feel wanted, we feel like there is no reason to live.
So the guy making the first move makes us feel safe, and stops us being scared.
It shows us that there is a reason for us to be.
Seems like a huge responsibility for the guy?
It's natural.
If there is no reason to do something, why should we?


That's why we wait for guys to make the first move.