GIRLS,
would you
date a BOY with self harm scars? A boy that just went
through a really rough time, had so much to deal with. But
over time he is over it, he just has scars of his past.
What do you girls think about boys who self harm have
depression, low self esteem etc. Do you think you could
love him? Is it a major turn off? Would you go out with a
guy who has self-harm scars? Your COMMENT would mean so
much. Thank you.
577 faves · 306 comments · Sep 30, 2011 12:52pm
ShyYates
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9 years ago
Yes and have before. If you love him then it shouldn't matter if he self harms, make him feel loved and wanted don't yell at him for self harm.. Most people who self harm just wanna be loved.
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Reagin
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1 decade ago
yes I definitely would. I would find him beautiful scars and all.
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kaitlovesyou
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1 decade ago
Yes I would, & I have before. I actually really want to right now. I wanna make him unbroken & make him feel like the best thing in the world. I would never break his heart because I know exactly how it feels. I'd love him forever.
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BlueSkye
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1 decade ago
I would love him as i did before
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alexevansbabe
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1 decade ago
yes. it makes no difference to me.
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Hopelessromantic51598
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1 decade ago
of course. it wouldent matter. and never would. having depression is uncontrolable. that would be like not dating a girl because she is plus size. its just wrong.
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StuckInsideIsAGirlWhosReal
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1 decade ago
i meant i do have scars, i don't have a boyfriend. :p
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StuckInsideIsAGirlWhosReal
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1 decade ago
of course, i do
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vannacupcake
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1 decade ago
Of course. No matter what, love is love.
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jilllfoley
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1 decade ago
no doubt, im with one right now
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awesome_sauce
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1 decade ago
That should never be a turn off. Most people want to date human beings. And if someone is turned off just because you've had a rough time, well they simply don't deserve you.
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xxtrackcutie97xx
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1 decade ago
This would never be a turn off. I would have more respect towards them because those are scars of something that they have overcome.
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Sceneskater
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1 decade ago
Yes defiantly it would mean he had been through just as much or more than I have
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roseluvsskittles
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1 decade ago
I have and I still will. I know whats it like so I'd be there for him every step of the way. No matter how many times he tries to push me away. I'll still care. I'll still try my hardest to put a smile on his face. Because the truth is, he may not show it, but all he wants is to be loved. <3 :)
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Abbey1713
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1 decade ago
of corse 100 times yes, i think i would always, guys need love when it comes to that to, and anytime he neded me id be there to make his heart feel better : )
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Karlifisherlovesyouu
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1 decade ago
I have, and Would most likely do it again.
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XoXoPleaseLuvMe
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1 decade ago
someone might actually have something in common then.. they were strong and deserve someone who would understand.. so of course i would
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Hurley123
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1 decade ago
of course ♥
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nerdville
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1 decade ago
My Boy Has Fairly Large Anxiety Problems, but no scars ^-.-^ and i love him anyway.
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letsbetruthful · 8 years ago
sorry but if they were visible i wouldn't, not because i find it unattractive , in fact i find it attractive i would like to think shows how you are more understanding- i self harm myself so it shows you would be better at understanding my situation, but because my parents would make a big thing about it and people would stare. Me and my social anxiety disorder couldn't cope with all the negative attention, sorry, I'm sure you are an amazing person...
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