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Um, I need advice from you guys on something. I know it's long, but please help? 

Well, I have a boyfriend, and his name is Nick. I started dating him March of '09, and we completely around, like June 15th of '10. He hurt me so much and I know that, which is why I stopped talking to him for a while. But, then in December he started talking to me again and apologized for everything he's ever done to me, so I forgave him. Then, he was telling me he wanted to take me back and all this other stuff and i kept telling him no, no, no.. I don't want to date anyone right now, but he kept trying. So I gave him another chance and we hung out twice and all of my feelings came back for him that I originally had, and I felt like that was a sign that I should take him back. Pretty much all of my friends disagree with it and all this other stuff and told me that they didn't want to see me get hurt again and stuff, but i still went ahead and dated him anyway, because i felt like i needed to, for me. but ever since I started dating him, which was on January 12th, I feel like i don't see him as a boyfriend anymore... i feel like my feelings got weaker, while his got stronger. but, we haven't hung out or anything because he hasn't been allowed, but we're hanging out tomorrow and I'm kinda nervous because I'm afraid I'm not gonna get any of my feelings back. and like, in school and stuff, we pass each other in the hall, but we usually don't get a chance to talk or anything, but i don't get butterflies like i used to, and he told me he does get butterflies.. :\ so now i don't know weather to stay with him, break up with him, wait till tomorrow and see how things go.. i just don't know, and i need you guy's (im from pittsburgh and would usually say yinz, so i wasn't sure how to put that. lol.) help, with different opinions... Advice please? :\

Thanks. love you guys.. <3

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DreaminYo · 1 decade ago
he's hurt you too much hun. Thats your hearts way of telling you to let him go. Your mind thinks that you love him. but your heart feels another way. Follow your heart <3
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kelda76 · 1 decade ago
in addition to what taylordiana said - make sure you say that you still want to be friends. having a guy to hang with and be able to talk to is legit the best thing you can do for yourself.
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taylordiana · 1 decade ago
Alright, dont do anything too risky when you hang out. Dont hold hands, kiss, just try to have a good time. At the end of the date, talk to him in private. Tell him how you feel. Say EVERYTHING. Like not all thats up there, but just recent stuff. Something like... "Nick, when we started hanging out again, I got all the feekings i originally had for you back, but now I feel different. I still like you,.. but I dont get those butterflies i used to..." If you get feelings back say something after his like.."But after hanging out with you today, I really did get those butterflies back. I want to stay with you, i just wanted you to know." Then hold his hand:) If not be like, "I thought my feelings would change after today, but they didnt. I wanna end this now before I have no feelings at all." hope this helped<3
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ilovechickens · 1 decade ago
in MY opinion, you should wait till you hang out tomorrow. let yourself fall for him. and why do your friends not want you to go out with him? the only reason why they shouldn't is if he cheated on you. but good luck<3
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