Someone broke your heart and you decided to hide it. For months on end you didn't let a single person near you. You became cold, a hollow human. You let men touch your body but definitely not your heart or mind. The idea of being unloveable became so familiar to you and the idea of another person wanting to call you theirs became foreign to you. Validiation is what you longed for but confidence is what you needed. Their words aren't your value. If they think you're cute or skinny it means nothing. Self worth will get you through.Believe in yourself and your capabilities to love and be loved. Be the sunshine that's needed on a snowy day. Melt the snow and people will flock to you.