So I have been asked by my best friend a question. And I want other peopleās opinions on this. She has been madly in love with this guy for five years. He is one of our best friends, and last year they told each other they had feelings for each other. They never officially dated, and still arenāt, but they are close. As time goes on, she feels he has been pulling away, and he isnāt as communicative as he used to be with her. Then this other guy came along (who, quite frankly is the male version of her, a perfect match) and they have become really good friends over the last few months. She thinks he is going to ask her out, and she wants to know if it is time she gives up on the first guy, who she is in love with, for a chance with the new guy, who her feelings arenāt as strong for (yet) but the seem like the perfect match?