Veronica Smith*
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9 years ago
OMG I can sooooooo relate to this. thrs a quote on my page about this feel free to read it!!! reply
_Jannette
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9 years ago
That sounds insanely painful. Idk how you're even walking. I hope you get well soon bro. reply
BellaZoia
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1 decade ago
Okay, I can answer this with 100% certainty because I've been in the same boat with a guy for the past two years. It does mean she loves you, and she probably thinks about dating you again and all that stuff. You're like the one never changing, solid thing in her life and that means a lot. The guy that I have the situation with has literally referred to himself as the north star, because he's always in the same place. She wants to just be friends because she isn't sure it's going to work. That doesn't mean you're the reason it might not work, it's probably an internal thing. You sound like you're close with her, so think: has she had any traumatic things occur in her life involving people she loves or have bad past experience with relationships? That will scare a girl away from a serious relationship. Also, is she very adventurous, spontaneous, and energetic? Because people like that tend to have commitment problems since they're not used to settling and are likely afraid that they'll be missing out on something by settling too fast. There's also the possibility that she has questionable feelings for someone else, but that doesn't mean she's stringing you along. It's part of the "afraid to commit" "don't want to miss out" extravaganza. It could be questionable that she's stringing you along if she's cuddling and what not, but when you talk about jealousy at you talking to another girl or needing you so she can fall asleep, those are things that most guys take for granted as little cute things a girl does. Those two things are actually the biggest clue into a girl's most protected, insecure, scariest inner thoughts in her mind and heart. She's giving you the key basically, but it's not an ordinary key; it's so advanced, complex, and deep, so now you need to learn how to use it. reply
THeSToRyoFaFieRCeGiRL
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1 decade ago
I'm just gonna be straight forward on this one...
She's stringing you along.
It's one of two situations. Either 1. "If I can't have you, no one else can." Or 2. "I don't want you, but I don't want anyone else to have you" this one probably from jealousy or she feels like she's the best you'll ever have or no one deserves you (or you don't deserve them). Don't accept gifts from her or let her ruin your plans. She's just pulling you along and thinks she's got you wrapped around her finger. reply
*ｓａｍｍｉ*
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1 decade ago
Girls are just annoyingly confusing most of the time.
Like, they don't even understand themselves.
Their minds have no logic tbh
And I'm a girl.
All we literally care about is food and sleep. reply
s3mpiternal
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1 decade ago
Girls are confusing.
She probably still loves you. reply
KayleighJean
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1 decade ago
It means she is in love with you, but is probably in denial reply
KayleighJean
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1 decade ago
You did not fail whoever if is, you tried and tried your hardest. If whoever if is can't realize that, then it's them who has failed. They have missed out on someone who is probably extraordinary reply
KayleighJean
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1 decade ago
This is basically my entire life haha. reply
dusktodawnreader
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1 decade ago
lol that makes so much more sense now reply
YourWorthIt
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1 decade ago
You better not give up or I'll have to knock some common since into you. Your meant to keep trying until you find "The one" That probably wont come until you 20 maybe 18 or so. Yes, it's okay to take maybe a year or few off from hunting but don't give up all together. reply
Veronica Smith* · 9 years ago
OMG I can sooooooo relate to this. thrs a quote on my page about this feel free to read it!!!
reply
_Jannette · 9 years ago
That sounds insanely painful. Idk how you're even walking. I hope you get well soon bro.
reply
BellaZoia · 1 decade ago
Okay, I can answer this with 100% certainty because I've been in the same boat with a guy for the past two years. It does mean she loves you, and she probably thinks about dating you again and all that stuff. You're like the one never changing, solid thing in her life and that means a lot. The guy that I have the situation with has literally referred to himself as the north star, because he's always in the same place. She wants to just be friends because she isn't sure it's going to work. That doesn't mean you're the reason it might not work, it's probably an internal thing. You sound like you're close with her, so think: has she had any traumatic things occur in her life involving people she loves or have bad past experience with relationships? That will scare a girl away from a serious relationship. Also, is she very adventurous, spontaneous, and energetic? Because people like that tend to have commitment problems since they're not used to settling and are likely afraid that they'll be missing out on something by settling too fast. There's also the possibility that she has questionable feelings for someone else, but that doesn't mean she's stringing you along. It's part of the "afraid to commit" "don't want to miss out" extravaganza. It could be questionable that she's stringing you along if she's cuddling and what not, but when you talk about jealousy at you talking to another girl or needing you so she can fall asleep, those are things that most guys take for granted as little cute things a girl does. Those two things are actually the biggest clue into a girl's most protected, insecure, scariest inner thoughts in her mind and heart. She's giving you the key basically, but it's not an ordinary key; it's so advanced, complex, and deep, so now you need to learn how to use it.
reply
THeSToRyoFaFieRCeGiRL · 1 decade ago
I'm just gonna be straight forward on this one...
She's stringing you along.
It's one of two situations. Either 1. "If I can't have you, no one else can." Or 2. "I don't want you, but I don't want anyone else to have you" this one probably from jealousy or she feels like she's the best you'll ever have or no one deserves you (or you don't deserve them). Don't accept gifts from her or let her ruin your plans. She's just pulling you along and thinks she's got you wrapped around her finger.
reply
*ｓａｍｍｉ* · 1 decade ago
Girls are just annoyingly confusing most of the time.
Like, they don't even understand themselves.
Their minds have no logic tbh
And I'm a girl.
All we literally care about is food and sleep.
reply
s3mpiternal · 1 decade ago
Girls are confusing.
She probably still loves you.
reply
KayleighJean · 1 decade ago
It means she is in love with you, but is probably in denial
reply
KayleighJean · 1 decade ago
You did not fail whoever if is, you tried and tried your hardest. If whoever if is can't realize that, then it's them who has failed. They have missed out on someone who is probably extraordinary
reply
KayleighJean · 1 decade ago
This is basically my entire life haha.
reply
dusktodawnreader · 1 decade ago
lol that makes so much more sense now
reply
YourWorthIt · 1 decade ago
You better not give up or I'll have to knock some common since into you. Your meant to keep trying until you find "The one" That probably wont come until you 20 maybe 18 or so. Yes, it's okay to take maybe a year or few off from hunting but don't give up all together.
reply