"ALL GUYS ARE THE SAME" my friend complained.
I sat her down and told her the following story...
Earlier this year I was in one of my classes and this one girl (lets call her Sara) asked to use the restroom but the teacher (shall we call him Mr. Insensitive?) told her no. The girl politely asked once more but he said no again. A few minutes later she said it was an emergency and he still turned her down. You could tell she was obviously annoyed but about 3 minutes later asks again and tells him its a serious emergency and she needs to go, but he still says no. Sara stands up and everyone turns to look at her and her face goes red from embarassment as she says to the teacher in front of everyone,
"I just started my period and I literally need to use the restroom"
At this point, everyone is staring. Mr. Insensitive STILL refuses to let her go and tells her to sit down. Everyone in class was confused and OUT OF NO WHERE a boy who was sitting near her who she didnt know very well personally, a varsity football player, stands up and says,
"Dont you have a wife? Didn't you grow up with your mom or sisters? She started her period and she needs to use the bathroom and she is going to whether you like it or not."
He then walked over, pulled Sara with him and proceeded to walk her to the bathroom. When they came back, MR. INSENSITIVE called security on them and the guy got suspended for standing up for a girl. That girl was me.
I will never forget that day. A football player was man enough to stand up for a girl against a teacher and defend her on a girl problem she was having. Not many high school guys are mature enough to even say the word "period" much less do what he did.
So no, all guys arent the same. You just dont bother looking for the good ones.