Please Read,
My friend who is the sweetest most outgoing person i've ever met found a guy that, at first, made her smile and feel good about herself. A few months later he started to be very clingy and wouldn't let her take a pic or even talk with another guy. She then tried to break up with him, but that just made things worse. He then threatened to kill or harm himself if she broke up with him. She came to my friends house and hung out with her. After 2 hours of not talking to him she admitted that it felt great, almost like she was free. Then she checked her text messages and he texted her a bunch of times telling her that it wasn't right to leave hima astray for so long. She spent the rest of the day apologizing for something that wasn't even wrong. They then went to a party together, and he took advantage of her. This type of action that she's enduring is called emotional abuse. She might be strong and confident but one characteristic that she lacks is standing up for herself. Emotional abuse almost always leads to Physical abuse. I dont want it to ever get there but she wont listen to anyone. She once told me this, "Even if he did physically abuse me, i wouldn't tell anyone." This is so serious. I know its not my decision but if she's not going to get help soon then i might need to do it myself. A bunch of people who care about her are going to go to guidance and tell them about her relationship. If that doesn't help then were going head on. We'll speak our minds to him.
- A Friend
If you read this thank you. I really needed to vent. This isn't something fake it's as real as it gets.