seafoam*
·
7 years ago
I, too, have random, temporary spurts of confidence every now and again that are borne of others' praise and kept alive by it. My good feelings about myself fade and die when there's a cessation in the kind words. But when you wholeheartedly (and, as you said, unconditionally) love and appreciate yourself and all you have to offer, you don't need anyone else's confirmation that you possess those positive qualities, because you're fully aware of their existence yourself, and occasional recognition from others is merely nice, not necessary. So maybe you're like me and haven't yet achieved true contentment or even pride in who you are, but your self-esteem skyrockets and plunges depending on your mood depending on acknowledgment. It's not the healthiest way to live, but it's not unchangeable either. reply
wackodewacko59
·
7 years ago
i really don't know love is just hard and im really never able to get anyone because a lot of people ruin it for me reply
Raxin
·
7 years ago
My post on that topic: http://www.wittyprofiles.com/q/7059901 reply
Skimrande
·
7 years ago
I've had this account for as long as I've been on witty. It's nice to look at but it's so gd embarrassing at the same time reply
gab*
·
7 years ago
i'm glad that i've kept the same account for nearly 5 years. although i have deleted some of my older quotes i'm still able to see how much i've grown reply
seafoam* · 7 years ago
I, too, have random, temporary spurts of confidence every now and again that are borne of others' praise and kept alive by it. My good feelings about myself fade and die when there's a cessation in the kind words. But when you wholeheartedly (and, as you said, unconditionally) love and appreciate yourself and all you have to offer, you don't need anyone else's confirmation that you possess those positive qualities, because you're fully aware of their existence yourself, and occasional recognition from others is merely nice, not necessary. So maybe you're like me and haven't yet achieved true contentment or even pride in who you are, but your self-esteem skyrockets and plunges depending on your mood depending on acknowledgment. It's not the healthiest way to live, but it's not unchangeable either.
reply
wackodewacko59 · 7 years ago
i really don't know love is just hard and im really never able to get anyone because a lot of people ruin it for me
reply
Raxin · 7 years ago
My post on that topic: http://www.wittyprofiles.com/q/7059901
reply
Skimrande · 7 years ago
I've had this account for as long as I've been on witty. It's nice to look at but it's so gd embarrassing at the same time
reply
gab* · 7 years ago
i'm glad that i've kept the same account for nearly 5 years. although i have deleted some of my older quotes i'm still able to see how much i've grown
reply
musicure · 7 years ago
I feel you
reply
Raxin · 7 years ago
I'm sorry to hear you have trepidation about your listless lassitude.
reply
*ｓａｍｍｉ* · 9 years ago
Aaayyyy
reply
InLoveWithHim1040609 · 1 decade ago
Ask Me Questions?(:
ask.fm/fabifigueroa423
reply