Here's a word of advice from a girl who's been there. I know that a lot of Witty girls think that they're "forever alone" or that they will never find a guy who really loves them. I know this because I've been a member of this website for almost four years now, and I used to think the same way... up until a week ago when I started college and met the most amazing guy that I have ever known. Seriously guys, like he is so nice and kind to me.. he brings me food and carries my things, and walks me to my dorm room at night. We watched movies together, and ate together and studied together... It's incredible how much this one guy likes me. I'm 17 and in college and I'd never even held a guy's hand until now because I've been waiting so intently for the right one to come along. The point I'm trying to get to here is that you may feel like someone is never going to come your way, or that love will never happen for you. You're lying to yourself. Your making yourself feel like crap for no reason at all. I only wish I realized it earlier---how unhappy I made myself over something that I just had to allow to happen. I just had to trust the process. So Witty girls, if a guy is ignoring you, or treating you like crap, or doesn't seem to care that you like them, maybe they're not the right guy for you. Take it from me. I've made every mistake in the book when it comes to liking guys who never cease to ignore you. There's someone out there for all of us, we just have to sit back and let it happen instead of trying to force things. You don't have to find love in middle school, or high school, or even college... even though our society makes us feel like we need to. You are independent intelligent girls who don't need to wallow over a guy. Wait for the right one to come to you, because they will. <3
I feel like Detox Weekend doesn't really help, because the only quotes that become top quotes are the ones that are only made by people who have a lot of followers. That's why the same people always get top quotes, and it really isn't fair because there's not many ways to get more followers since witty was changed...
Was it all just a joke to you? Everytime I listened to all of your problems, After I kept my word, and never told a single soul. [I was there when she wasn't] After you told me that you needed someone like me in your life because I don't cause you drama? I s i t t r u e t h a t y o u d o n ' t t r u s t m e ? You act like I never existed, like nothing we ever had ever counted even a little bit. Like we never even went out. Like we never even had feelings for eachother. You said you hate being taken for granted. Well, guess what? So do I.
I will always be the amazing friend to him, nothing more. He goes on and on and on about how he loves her, and she never even thinks twice about him. I'm walking beside him listening quietly, wanting to tell him how I've really felt all along, but I stayed quiet, so that I wouldn't even chance ruining whatever it is that we have now. </3