seafoam* · 8 years ago
Happy birthday!
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beary0630 · 8 years ago
Thank you! :)
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Alexandra❤️* · 8 years ago
I feel extremely honored that you have nearly 500 followers, you only followed 24 people and I happened to be one of those 24 people. Like my heart, soul, and face are grinning 😁 hahaha thank you so much! I'm so glad the person who does the One Direction updates followed me! I flipping love One Direction! They literally got me through the hardest part of my life. Along with The Lord of course. But anyways thank you so much! It means a lot ! (:
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beary0630 · 8 years ago
Oh it's no problem! I followed you because I really love your quotes about God. It made me smile to see someone else out there with faith is Jesus and who isn't afraid to post about Him on here. A lot of people don't feel comfortable posting about their religion online :) And it's also awesome that you like 1D too! I'm happy to follow you :)
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Alexandra❤️* · 8 years ago
I love posting about God and Jesus! The Lord is my savior so I love posting about him! And I love seeing other people who post about him as well! Of course it upsets me when people comment negative things. I wish they would keep there negative comments to themselves and stop assuming that all Christians are the same. But anyway I love postin about my religion. I feel so comfortable about it. I love talking to everyone about it too like I just want to convince everyone about Jesus. I just love it sooo much! And every time I help people it just makes me sooo happy!!
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beary0630 · 8 years ago
Yeah those negative comments can get annoying and get you down. But you can always try to witness to them with it. I try to not be too pushy but share what I believe and leave it at that. And you're right, all Christians are not the same for sure. I hate when a couple of Christian people do something wrong so then everyone assumes we all do it. But I think your quotes are great and spreading the good news! They're really lovely to read!
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Alexandra❤️* · 8 years ago
That's what I do! My goal in life is to save as many people as I can and I know it's not possible to save everyone, I wish I could but I know I can not. I try to be content with those that I can. Thank you though!
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beary0630 · 8 years ago
Yeah that's true too. You can't save everyone. The best thing you can do is pray for all of the people you've talked to. Even if they don't believe or care about what you have to say, you've at least planted the seed. And one day when maybe they're having a hard time, they'll think back to that and accept Jesus!
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Alexandra❤️* · 8 years ago
Exactly! That's why I at least try to talk about Jesus at least once with everyone I come across. I try not to be too pushy. Like one of my best friends doesn't believe (which I am working on) and so when some of my other friends found out they were down her throat grilling her for information. It was obvious that all they were doing was pushing her farther away. So sometimes you can't be too pushy. Sometimes all you can do is give them the idea and let them mull over it and come to a conclusion on their own.
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beary0630 · 8 years ago
Yeah you never want to push the idea of Jesus and salvation on anyone. Teaching them is best and then if they have questions fill them in. It's the pushiness that drives people away and makes people think that Christian's are crazy. Plus the best part is when people come to the Lord on their own. They have to be the one to decide anyway or it doesn't mean anything. They are the only ones who can make that choice to commit their life to Jesus.
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Alexandra❤️* · 8 years ago
Exactly! It's nice to talk to someone who thinks the same way
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Steve · 9 years ago
Happy Birthday!
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beary0630 · 9 years ago
Thank you!
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ellie 🌸* · 9 years ago
Happy birthday! Hope you have an awesome one! Stay awesome and dedicated directioner (: <3 x
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beary0630 · 9 years ago
Thank you! And I will always be a Directioner!
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seafoam* · 9 years ago
Happy birthday! Thank you for doing what you do for fellow Directioners. It's incredibly helpful and thoughtful of you. Someone as dedicated as you are to the boys and to keeping other fans updated on their whereabouts / rumors deserves nothing but the best on her special day. I hope that's exactly what you get. Much love xx
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beary0630 · 9 years ago
Thank you so much! I love doing the updates and I'm glad you like them and read them! I had a really good day. Thank you for being a faithful reader!
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seafoam* · 9 years ago
It's good to hear that, and no problem!
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PowerTumbler411 · 9 years ago
Jenny omg! I know this is gonna seem totally random but I really just need to get this off my chest and it's like almost midnight and nobody I talk to in person will understand this as well as you....so basically, I just went on my 1D witty (MyLifeWithOneDirection) which I had kinda had in the back of my mind. But I went on it, and read all the little imagines and stuff I'd written, and my rants about different drama and rumors. I also happened to come across the list of ways Harry and I are alike (most of which are still true) and it reminded me of how we started talking. Long story short, I've gotten really sappy and nostalgic. I really miss talking to you about the boys, or PLL, or basically anything! It also really made me reminisce about the good old days when I had all my time to love the boys, and made me realize I had kinda fallen out of touch with the fangirl side of me. I read all the imagines and it made me realize why I wrote them, I could 100% feel what I felt back when I wrote them and now I think my heart has broken into a million little pieces. I miss those days so much, and I've realized that I never stopped loving Harry, and that it wasn't just some like fangirl crush, but I really do honestly love him for who he is, not for being Harry Styles. I know I sound insane and everything, but I honestly truly miss feeling the way I did/do about Harry. I had kinda pushed it out of sight, out of mind, just so I could focus on school and everything but I miss it so much. I've realized it's been about 2.5 years since I joined this fandom hardcore and I miss when we were a family. I really miss everything from back then. I just really wish more than anything that I could meet Harry, or any of them....plus the fact that they're making a DVD about the WWA tour makes me wish I could see them live and omg I just can't. (<----- Basic white girl thing to say I know) I just really needed to let this out, so sorry if I sound mental, but I needed to tell someone.
I'm also really glad we've become friends, and I feel like I can always talk to you about things without being judged and you never fail to seem to understand me, so thank you for that. :)
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beary0630 · 9 years ago
Hey! I've missed chatting with you too! I'm glad you thought of me to talk to! I love talking about the boys and PLL and stuff and I'm happy I can be of help! I've actually been going through the same kind of thing. I met this guy about 3 months ago and we started dating. But then we broke up. And during that time I kinda fell out of the fangirl side of me too. And just recently I got back into it and I realize that I'm feeling the same exact way. I realize how strong of feelings I have for Niall. Just like you do for Harry. And so many girls like us feel the same way, so you aren't alone. I also joined the fandom around the same time as you so I totally know what you mean about missing those old days when we were like a family. And all together when you think about how much you have in common with your favorite doesn't it just suck that you know your chances are so slim to actually having them? Because I honestly feel as if (at least for girls like us) we pick our favorite based on the fact that they are the one we'd be the most suited with, not always because of looks. (Though none of them are lacking in the looks department anyway). But yes Lia, you are definitely NOT alone in feeling that way. What is the closest WWA show to you, the Rose Bowl one? I mean I know that a few days before the show, the tickets get really cheap. Maybe you could get one that way? Or is it the distance? I really feel bad when a dedicated fan can't go because you truly deserve it. You've been here for a long time and I think every fan who has been here that long is almost owed it to go. The only way I was able to go was to blow old savings bonds. But anyway, other than that how's things going? You're on your way to being a senior now right? And I have to ask, how are you liking this current season of PLL?
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PowerTumbler411 · 9 years ago
I am SO glad you understand! I kinda cried over it last night...maybe a little...It started with me thinking about my thing with Dakota, and missing him, and not being able to see him because he's doing community service in the Dominican Republic right now, and I started thinking about Harry. Then it all sort of snowballed and I basically lost it. I think as of right now, my biggest issue is distance and timing. There's shows in Cali that my parents might consider letting me go to, if it wasn't at the start of senior year. I just really can't believe things are so messed up! Like if I had the chance I could probably get the money to go, but the timing is just way off. My parents would rather have me go to somewhere during school for college visits, not concerts. Otherwise, things are pretty good, summer weather hasn't kicked in yet so I haven't really been enjoying it, but at least there's no school. I am liking the new season, but I noticed for some reason, I basically hate the first episode in every season. I just feel like it's kinda slow and I just tend to like the following episodes more. How are you liking PLL?
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beary0630 · 9 years ago
Aw it's okay to cry. It's really normal. So are you and Dakota together or still just good friends? I understand that too. It's like sometimes you think of one thing that makes you kind of sad and then that makes you think of all the other things. Ugh and the whole timing thing really does suck. It's a shame that this year the tour isn't purely in the summer. For the West coast school will have started. The best thing is that the boys will probably tour next year or at least some point soon. But I agree the timing for this year just really really sucks bad. At least your out of school now. How cold is it out there? It's really hot where I live. I like the new season well enough but I think it's lacking a bit. They really need to pick it up a bit. But it's still really entertaining and I'm still curious to see what's going on. My biggest curiosity is what is the thing that Melissa and Spencer's father know? It's really weird and shady.
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PowerTumbler411 · 9 years ago
Oh, I also forgot to mention HAPPY BIRTHDAY!
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PowerTumbler411 · 9 years ago
Right now, we're just good friends. We were sorta together towards the end of the year, but nothing serious. He's had a lot going on with graduation, his 18th birthday, then his grandma shipping him off to the Dominican for community service, so I didn't wanna push it too much. It really does suck...I just can't seem to get around it. This week it's supposed to be mid 70s but it's not consistant, last week it was mid 60s and rainy. Exactly! It's just kinda slow...like yeah Ali is home, we get it, but we watch this show for the drama. Right?!?! I NEED to know! I'm betting they'll keep the suspense on that one for as long as possible.
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beary0630 · 9 years ago
Oh okay, that's understandable. He does seem like a busy guy. Is he going to college nearby or far from where you guys live? And ew that weather seems like a drag but what can you do? Hopefully it will be get sunny soon! And that's exactly it. It's going too slow. I read an interview with Marlene King and she said the big reveal episode this time will be the 100th episode. Apparently that's next weeks. So tonight's might be another filler until we get something good. And yeah I don't think we'll find out about that for a looooonnnggg time. By the way, just curious, how do you feel about Aria and Ezra? They have been so on and off and I've heard a lot of people want that to end. Because it looks like they might be leaning toward getting back again. Anyway, thanks for the happy birthday! :)
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PowerTumbler411 · 9 years ago
He's going to Western Washington University, but that's in Bellingham, 2 hours away with no traffic....he did say he would be home most weekends though. He'll probably spend them at UW frat houses with his best friend (he'll be living in a frat house there) so I'm not sure how much I'll see of him. Yeah it's kinda crazy, it's either raining or super hot (for seattle) so there's no perfect middle ground. That's next week's episode! I just watched tonight's episode and I'm curious as to who was standing outside Hanna's dressing room....what do you think about Spencer's dad? I mean....I've always loved Ezria, but it's kinda getting to a point where I think they just need to be completely done, or decide to commit. There's only so much back and forth I can take with anyone, so with two characters it's even worse.
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beary0630 · 9 years ago
Yeah that is kind of far away. And I'm sure right now he plans to come home weekends but once he gets into it more he might want to stay at school more often. But that's just something that you'll have to wait and see. And yeah that weather is how it is here in the spring time. I have no idea who was standing outside of the dressing room. Maybe Mona? And Spencer's dad is a creep. He always seemed odd. But I definitely think he's in on something. I agree about Ezria though. They need to end it or commit. But deep down I think I want them to stay together for good.
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PowerTumbler411 · 9 years ago
That's exactly what I was thinking. Like I know he says he wants to come home every weekend, but he won't have anyone to drive him home and he hates driving and being alone, so that's not really gonna happen. Not as often as he might hope. Yeah our springs are either really hot the entire time, or pouring rain the entire time; there's no inbetween. I thought they were guys shoes....? It could honestly have been anyone. I wouldn't put it past him to have killed Mrs.D honestly...but with this show it could be anyone. I think I do too...but with all the fighting sometimes it seems like they should just end it.
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beary0630 · 9 years ago
Yeah that's true. And I'm the same way. I don't particularly like driving alone either. And most of the time, freshman can't even have a car on campus anyway. Ew that sounds awful. I don't like the heat too much and I'd really hate it if it rained every day. Yeah they were guy shoes but they just stick things in there like that all the time. A sometimes looks male and sometimes female. And yeah I wouldn't be surprised if he killed her too. But then again they may just want us to think that. I wish they'd just make Aria and Ezra solid. Like can't there be one couple who is just together and happy?
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PowerTumbler411 · 9 years ago
He's made me drive his car places when we do things....so after awhile I was just like yeah I'll pick you up. I actually prefer the colder weather, and non-intense rain....I really like fall. It's the perfect mix. I do enjoy the sun, but not crazy heat. This is true....who knows, it could've been anyone and Hanna was just paranoid, thus making us paranoid. I feel like on one hand they just want us to think that, because they mislead us all the time; but then again, this can't go on much longer, I mean they're gonna graduate someday and I doubt they'll go to the same colleges. Exactly! Like Toby and Spencer are okay I guess but they're not great. Hanna and Caleb were really good together but now Caleb is in Ravenswood. Emily and Paige....I never really liked Paige, not that much. Can't someone stay happy?
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beary0630 · 9 years ago
Wow. I've never heard of a guy who didn't like to drive before. Most of them think it's "so cool". And I'm the same. I'm not a big fan of the heat but I don't like it bitter cold either. Yeah it really could've been anything. And knowing the producers, they might never touch on it again. And I actually heard that in between the first half of this season and the second half when it come back in January, there will be a significant time jump. Because they've literally been in the fall of their senior year for two seasons. Marlene said that it will jump to like their prom or something. And then to stretch it after that they'll probably just have the last seasons the summer before college. But the actresses are getting too old to be passable as high school kids now. Right? Even Spencer and Toby aren't quite right. I think she has a thing for Andrew. I liked Caleb a lot and I heard that since Ravenswood was cancelled, they're going to write him back into PLL. And I never really liked Paige either.
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PowerTumbler411 · 9 years ago
I know but he absolutely hates it...I have no idea why. Yeah I like that perfect balance, but more on the colder side. Ugh that's kind of annoying...like that time jump is just gonna be weird and awkward. Yeah they're barely passing for seniors right now purely because they're changing just as much as their characters. Yeah same, I mean I can't really blame her, but she needs to choose. That's great! I'm kinda glad I never got into Ravenswood... Paige is just one of those characters who's not quite right...no matter what.
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beary0630 · 9 years ago
Yeah I'm kinda like him. I don't love to drive but I don't think I hate it that much. You sound like my mom. She likes it colder. It might be awkward. Because it's like did nothing happen to them at all in 5 months or so? And yeah they need to age them more because it's really starting to not work. She does need to choose. Yeah I'm mad that Ravenswood ended with no answers but I'll be glad to see Caleb back. And I agree about Paige. She's just odd
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PowerTumbler411 · 9 years ago
I don't absolutely hate it, but if someone else could drive....I'll let them drive. Haha it's just because I tend to always be really hot, I kinda just radiate heat 24/7. Yeah exactly, like with a show that took 2 seasons and it's only Novemberish, you'd think something would happen in the next 5 months. I think Toby is better for her, but she seems like like Andrew more. Caleb kinda always belonged on PLL, honestly. Paige just doesn't seem to fit into this show....
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beary0630 · 9 years ago
That's how I feel too. Yeah heat isn't really my thing either. I hope they don't do that with the time gap but if they do they'd better tie it together properly. And I want her with Toby, he's better. I agree about Caleb too. And the only reason I think they have Paige in the show is because she's in the books.
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PowerTumbler411 · 9 years ago
It's seriously going to bother me if it's just a huge jump and it's not continuous in the slightest bit. Toby is definitely better for Spencer, but who knows what she'll end up doing. Yeah, they can write characters into the series, but it's harder to write characters out of the script.
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beary0630 · 9 years ago
Yeah it's going to be dumb. I won't say anything because I know you haven't seen it yet. But tonight's episode was really good. You'll get some of the answers you're looking for. And the ending is pretty shocking. And after you see it tell me what you think! And boy is Toby's hair ugly looking in this episode.
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PowerTumbler411 · 9 years ago
Okay, so I just finished tonight's episode and omg. I just...first, Hanna is a wreck. Emily and Alison is kind of a weird pair and I doubt it'll last. You're right about Toby's hair, but it's good that he's around. CALEB IS BACK! I think Hanna will most likely end up back with him. Ezria is back! Yay! I hope it lasts! It kills me that they didn't read the text at the end of the episode! I NEED TO KNOW WHAT IT SAYS. Mona and Ali are really crazy at this point....oh who do you think Lucas is "dating"? I don't know if you'd know this, but the girl who Emily's been helping with swim (I forget her name), what else has she been in because she looks majorly familiar. Do you think Jenna was inside Toby's house when it exploded? Also, what are your thoughts on the Hastings?
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beary0630 · 9 years ago
Hanna is a total wreck. Do you think they are going to make her an alcoholic? Emily and Alison are kind of odd but I bet Ali will end up breaking Emily's heart again and ditch her for a guy. Toby is great but just needs a haircut. Caleb being back already makes me excited because I love him and you can already tell he and Hanna want to be together. And I knew Ezria would be back soon. We find out right away next time about the text but I'm sure it's the next A. I don't exactly think Lucas is dating anyone. Spencer (I think is was Spencer) said that they wanted to get all of them out of the way. So Lucas probably just said that to get Hanna to the party and get her drunk. And yeah the girl (her name is Sydney) is played by Chloe Bridges and she was in 90210, The Carrie Diaries, New Girl. I don't know if you watch any of those. She was also in Camp Rock 2. She kind of reminds me of a younger Anne Hathaway. And I don't think Jenna was inside. They just brought her character back I don't think they'd kill her off that quick. And I think Mr. Hastings is definitely guilty. He and Melissa know something and they won't tell us what that is. I think Spencer needs to get her sister alone because I think she'd tell her things without the dad around.
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PowerTumbler411 · 9 years ago
I don't think they'll technically classify her as an alcoholic, but they'll probably make it a key factor in her character. Yeah, that wouldn't surprise me in the slightest. Ali is probably just using her to make sure she still has someone. Yeah his hair is all sorts of messy. I love Caleb sooo much! He's definitely my favorite PLL guy. Ezria is one of those pairs that the fans love so much they just can't kill it. It could even be the original A....we may never find out. I don't think so either, I think he just wanted to spy on Hanna and get her drunk. Yeah that was interesting....it wouldn't surprise me though. That's her name! I knew it was something like that. I never watched any of those....Camp Rock! That's what I know her from! I went through a major Jonas Brothers phase, I was a Nick girl (no surprise there). I was thinking the same thing! I agree, I think they just want us to think she was. Mr. Hastings has always just been crazy and creepy, I'm not surprised they'll splitting the family up. Yeah, in the second (I believe) episode she was close to telling but her dad stopped her.
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beary0630 · 9 years ago
Yeah probably. It's probably going to be like Spencer last season with the pills. Ali will use Emily and that will cause more drama. I too am glad Caleb is back. You know there's going to be an epic love triangle between him Hanna and Travis. I'm really happy about Ezria too. I always liked them together and I hope they just stay solid for the rest of the show. And yeah, we never knew who the main mastermind behind A was. They may have always been in charge. I think Shauna is like Mona. Just one of the main A's pawns. We won't know who the real one is until the last episode I bet. Maybe Lucas wanted to get her drunk because he knows she has drinking tendencies. Yeah I never watched any of those either. I just looked her up and saw where she was from. I went through the Jonas Bother's phase too! And I was also a Nick girl. I think most people were. Mr. Hastings always had the weird vibes. But I wouldn't be surprised if the family gets back together later on. Because it will end up that he didn't do anything or something like that. And yeah Melissa was really close to telling her but she didn't. I hope we find at least that much out by the end of the season. Oh and one more thing. Am I the only one who was disappointed by the reveal of who was in Ali's grave? I mean I was hoping the name of the girl would have more meaning than that.
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PowerTumbler411 · 9 years ago
Yeah there's always a bigger problem with at least one of the girls. Ali is just a drama magnet and it's insane. I love Caleb waaayyy too much to think that he and Hanna don't belong together oops. Ezria is perfect, but if they split again I don't think they'll get back together. It's crazy to think there's been this many times we thought we knew who A was and it wasn't the whole story. Yeah that would make sense. Lucas has just been all sorts of bad news since he first showed up. Nick Jonas is somethin else....just pure perfection. Mr. Hastings was always the sketchiest parent in my opinion. Yeah there's always a twist, watch the thing with Melissa turn out not to be as big a deal as they're making it. Yeah I was hoping it'd be more than some random...but chances are it'll all tie together eventually. Who knows, maybe she'll end up being someone important.
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beary0630 · 9 years ago
Each season one girl has bigger problems than the rest. And I feel the same about Caleb and Hanna. They need to be together. He obviously came back for a reason and he needs to stay. Ezria too. If they break them up one more time and get together again, the writers are just stupid. Yeah it's whatever. A is going to change 100 more times before the show starts. Lucas was always so shady. He still is. Maybe he should date Mona. Nick just grew up to be a wonderful looking man. Yum! You're right about Mr. Hastings. And yeah the Melissa thing probably has nothing to do with the whole Ali mystery. It's probably something dumb. I hope so! I really want there to be more to that reveal than that.
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PowerTumbler411 · 9 years ago
It's just sort of what makes the PLL world work...Caleb and Hanna need to be together just as much as Aria and Ezra, maybe even more. A will always be the person we least expected. Lucas has always creeped me out...he's just so unsettling. That'd be a weird pair...but it might also work perfectly. Nick Jonas is an amazing guy...seeing him on Married to Jonas made my life. The Melissa thing is most likely just a personal issue with Wren or something irrelevant, just extra drama. I don't think they would've said so much about her on the news if it wasn't somehow significant....but who knows.
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PowerTumbler411 · 9 years ago
Hey Jenny!
I feel like we haven't talked in awhile, how are you?
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beary0630 · 9 years ago
Hey Lia!! I'm really good! How are things for you?
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PowerTumbler411 · 9 years ago
Yay! I'm pretty good too! Just finishing up spring break...really not wanting to go back to school. What have you been up to?
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beary0630 · 9 years ago
Ugh I totally understand. There's nothing worse than going back after a break. And I'm actually doing really great! I literally just got back from a date with this really sweet guy I met at work. How are things with that guy you were telling me about?
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PowerTumbler411 · 9 years ago
That's cute! I hope it all went well, besides getting your period (saw on twitter). It's been so long since we've last talked boys...I don't remember if I told you that Joey has a girlfriend? She's a sophomore, and well he basically cut me out of his life once he met her. He and I haven't talked in months, but if he was really meant to stick around, he would've. Have I told you about my friend Dakota? He's like a mix between Ashton and Harry so I basically died when he and I met (which was actually 2 years ago).
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beary0630 · 9 years ago
Ugh yeah getting my period sucked. Because I always get really bad cramps the first day. But thankfully they weren't that bad and pain killers worked. That really sucks that Joey got a girlfriend. But if he could do that and just cut you out, he's not worth it. And no you didn't tell me about Dakota. I wish I knew people who looked like 1D & 5SOS! Do you think anything could happen between you and him?
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PowerTumbler411 · 9 years ago
Oooh that sucks :( I rarely get cramps, and I am so glad. At least it was pretty mild, it could've been awful. Yeah I figured Joey really wasn't worth it, he was a jerk for just totally cutting me out. Well if I'm totally honest, I've had a thing for Dakota since we became friends. Partially bc he looks like Harry, then he cut his hair and now he looks more like Ashton. Then I found out he can sing and play guitar perfectly, he has a great sense of humor, he's smart, he likes to have fun, we have a lot of the same interests and well I was hooked. I just didn't think I'd have a shot with him, he's never had a girlfriend, I didn't think he would like me, and I'm not really sure why, bc we're practically the same person. We even dress alike, like down to the shoes! There have been rumors floating around for months about him taking me to prom...so fingers crossed!
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beary0630 · 9 years ago
Ugh you're so lucky! I feel like I'm going to die on the first day of my period. Anyway, yeah Joey's not worth it. That's just so stupid and rude. Dakota on the other hand sounds great! He's just like you and he looks like Harry/Ashton! What more could you want? And don't say that he wouldn't like you. He very well could. I hope he takes you to prom!
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PowerTumbler411 · 9 years ago
Whenever I get cramps, they're really bad! I hate periods in general. It didn't really bother me, I guess that's okay though. Right? Everyone's always telling us we're the same person and we have a ton of fun when we're together. It's all good. I really hope he does too! I want to go really badly because most of my friends this year are seniors, and everyone just assumes I'm going anyway...so why not go with him?
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beary0630 · 9 years ago
Periods are just so unnecessary. Like what's the point in suffering all that time? But yeah totally keep up hope for Dakota! I saw the picture you sent on Facebook! He's really cute and sweet looking! He looks really nice. I definitely think you should try to go with him. I hope he asks you.
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PowerTumbler411 · 9 years ago
Ugh I know, I get that it's a whole process but it really shouldn't be. He's really nice but he also has that super sarcastic sense of humor like I do - some people find it mean because they don't get it. Honestly I think there's a pretty good chance of him taking me, we spend a lot of time together, we share a locker, like even if we go as friends it'll be fun.
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beary0630 · 9 years ago
Yeah it's the process but at the same time there's so many other ways it could be done. Oh well. And yeah that so cute that you share a locker and stuff. I think he'll take you. And hey even if it is just as friends it will still be really fun. Maybe that could be the start of something, who knows.
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PowerTumbler411 · 9 years ago
Ugh I know, one thing I really hate about being a girl. I keep track of him, as weird as that may seem. It's been that way basically since the day we met, I just remember the things he tells me and then I remind him about them later (if necessary). I immediately started singing high school musical in my head when I read that lol....but yeah, maybe!
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MyWittyProfile · 1 decade ago
hi ok this is lame but ive been like wicked busy with school and stuff and I hardly come on here anymore and I can't really keep up with the boys but I was wondering if you could do a quick summary about each of the boys or something for me like idk i hardly even know about zayn and perrie's engagement and tbh it makes me sad that i can't keep up w/ them anymore and i just get very emotional :c
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Aww I'm sorry about that! It's okay! I'd be happy to help you out! I'll just start with what happened from say September until now.

In general the boys had a very busy fall. They had the TMH tour in Australia and New Zealand from September through the very end of October. Then November was a big month for promo for the Midnight Memories album. They were on various shows like XF. They attended and won awards at the American Music Awards. Of course they had the big 1D Day on November 23rd. If you missed that it was a 7 almost 8 hour livestream they did. And then after that they've been on break for the holidays.

Now I'll tell you details about each boy.

Liam: He's in London right now enjoying his time off. He's dating a girl called Sophia Smith. We really don't know too much about her. A lot of the fandom hates her because they think she looks like she's always angry. Unfortunately Liam smokes now. I don't know if you knew about this but he saved his friend Andy from a fire a few months back. We got some pictures of his pubes on a balcony in Aus. Haha there's not too much going on with him at the moment.

Louis: Louis is pretty much the same too. He's still with Eleanor. I don't know if you are a Elounor or Larry shipper but either way he's still with her. He's currently MIA (missing in action). He hasn't been seen since the boys went on break. He's either home in Doncaster or in LA with Harry but that's just a rumor. Other than that not much is going on with him either. Except for the fact that him mom is expecting twins! We don't know yet whether it's girls, boys or one of each!

Zayn: He's been pretty chill lately. He's currently in Weymouth with Perrie, her family and some of his friends. He got a new tattoo yesterday. Not sure yet what it is. And yeah he's engaged to Perrie and has been since August 18th! He did it privately at home and some of their family was there. That's it. They have no definite plans for a wedding but maybe by the end of this year. Though I doubt it with 1D and Little Mix's busy schedules. He's also gotten some new pets, a cat called Prada which Perrie named and another dog maybe and a lizard. And that's pretty much it for Zayn!

Niall: There's a lot of drama going on right now with him. He's been rumored to be dating a Victoria's Secret model called Barbara Palvin. She's Hugarian. They started hanging out about a month ago and saw the Hunger Games together. Then lately she's been with him a lot but neither of them confirmed that they are together. Fans say that they've seen them hold hands and kiss but again fans lie. There's no pictures for evidence. So right now we are basically just waiting to see what happens. It probably won't last because she's moving to Paris in a few weeks. Niall is currently in London and she is in Hungary again. So no drama today. The other thing is that Niall is rumored to be getting his knee surgery some time this week or next week. He hasn't confirmed anything about this either. So again we have to just wait and see. Lastly you probably know this already but if you didn't Niall has a nephew called Theo and he is the godfather! And that's all the drama and news about him!

And lastly Harry: He's been all over the place. He spent Christmas with his family but is now in LA. For the last month or so he's been linked to Kendall Jenner. At first we all thought it was for publicity but now some people think it's for real. Harry is apparently with her right now. But either way I don't think it's anything serious. He also won a court order recently that paps can take pictures of him within so many feet. He was getting mobbed and it was starting to get violent to him and fans. He currently lives with the Teasdales because his London home which is in Primrose Hill is being renovated. His sister moved to London and is living with Lou's sister Sam to be closer to Harry.

And that's about it. Right now the boys are on and on/off break from the big stuff. They will be just writing music for the next album. Then by either February/March they should start tour rehearsals for the Where We Are tour. Tour starts in late April! They may or may not be attending the People's Choice Awards in LA on the 8th. And other than that I can't think of any pressing news. Feel free to ask me about anything I said or didn't mention to you. Or if you'd like any links to anything that you missed I'd be happy to find some! Hope this helped!
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MyWittyProfile · 1 decade ago
omfg tysfm aND LIAM OH MY GOSH I CAN'T :( aw
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Welcome! hope that helped xx
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seafoam* · 1 decade ago
Hey!
I just wanted to show you what a friend made me for my birthday. I'm really excited about it and I thought you might like it too. (:
http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=2ppyasj&s=5#.UsZbYPRDt1W

Thanks for doing updates by the way! I appreciate it and I hope you continue doing them well into the future. Have a nice day / night, depending on when you read this.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Aww! That is SO pretty! I love all the quotes and song lyrics on it! Your friend did a great job!

Oh and it's no problem! I love updating! Thanks! You have a great night/day too!
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funkyoctopus121 · 1 decade ago
i have a question and this probably really stupid but
what is the official def of a carrot
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Well I wouldn't say there's an exact definition. It's just someone who still overuses all of the old jokes and buys the cheesy merch and stuff. I mean, people hate on them and stuff but tbh the fandom was more fun when everyone acted like that.
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funkyoctopus121 · 1 decade ago
and it was. we were a family
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
True dat! Happy New Year to you too! :) xx
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funkyoctopus121 · 1 decade ago
thats what i was what i thought i wasnt sure thank you tho. happy new year!
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
Hey Jenny!
I feel like we haven't talked in a while...how are you?
Also, I was wondering if you'd check out my wattpad? It's not fanfics or anything but I've never actually known someone that reads my stories so I thought I'd see if you'd like to? I'm not really sure if you're into that, but you don't have to if you don't want to! Thanks! http://www.wattpad.com/user/MyDaydreamingMind
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Hey! Yeah we haven't talked in a while! I'm doing alright! How are you doing? And sure I'd be happy to check it out. I'll let you know what I think!
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
Thanks Jenny!
I'm not bad actually, just glad to have a break from school...I don't want it to end!
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
How long do you have until you have to go back?
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
I go back on the 6th, so I have the rest of the week
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Nice!!
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
How have you been?
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
I'm alright! Looking for jobs. I need $$! How are you?
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
I hear that, I could use some money too. I'm not bad, stil REALLY bummed that there's no Seattle WWA Tour dates though. :/
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
I can't believe it either! What's the closest one to you? Can you try for that one?
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
The closest one is LA. But that's Sept 25 and my parents won't swing for that since it's right at the beginning of school and it's a Thursday, not exactly best time to go to Cali. Plus, out of my friends that like the boys, they won't be able to swing a trip to Cali then either. It'll either be the wrong time or too expensive. At this point I'm just hoping they add tour dates before it's too late.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Aw! Well they keep saying they are adding dates. So I really hope they do! The west coast is really getting cheated this time around. I said this on twitter awhile ago. It's more like the Where We AREN'T Tour.
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
I would probably cry if they added a Seattle date! I've been to concerts at our stadium, it's freaking magical. It's pure perfection! Like actually though! I remember seeing that tweet actually. Like why are they staying basically in the UK for the whole tour.
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OreoLover · 1 decade ago
Hello beautiful! :) Would you mind checking out my story on wattpad? I just posted it, and I don't have many reads. It would mean so so so much to me. It's a Harry Styles fanfic by the way :) Thank you, sorry for bothering! http://www.wattpad.com/33467033-stay-a-harry-styles-fanfiction
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Little_Writer_220 · 1 decade ago
Niall and Bella thorne?
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Dating? No way! She's barely 16!
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Little_Writer_220 · 1 decade ago
There have been rumors haha and that's what I thought! Besides I think she has a boyfriend... One D carrots are trying to Shake It Up... Heh heh I'm funny
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Omg I get the joke! Good one!!
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Fαy Στylες* · 1 decade ago
WHAT HAPPENED TO THE FANFICSSSS?!?!?
I need a fanfic...
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Oh yeah mean the ones I was writing over the summer? I didn't think anyone really cared so I just stopped. If you still want one I'd be happy to write one for you! I'm assuming you want one about Harry? Just tell me your name so I can write it!
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Vic Fuentes* · 1 decade ago
Aw I was waiting for mine too! I didn't want to bother you because you might have been busy and I would've just been a bother. But yeah, and I'm Tiffany. Can I please have one with Niall? ^_______^
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Yes you can!
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little_random_fact · 1 decade ago
Hey.
There's been HEAPS of rumours about Louis and Eleanor getting engaged and i was wondering if you had more of an opinion it more than information.
Thanks.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
I honestly doubt that it's true. I don't think it's gonna happen any time soon. I mean we didn't have any clue that Zayn was going to propose to Perrie so why would we know about Louis. It's his personal life so if it happens we'll know for sure.
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little_random_fact · 1 decade ago
Ok thanks!

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death ramps* · 1 decade ago
thank you yes arctic monkeys are amazing
one direction are so cute so!!
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
:)!
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MeanMocha · 1 decade ago
Thank you Thank you !! * Haha *
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
No problem!!
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
Hey Jenny! I just thought, since we talk on twitter ALL THE TIME now that I would let you in on something. A while back, like over a year ago you commented on a quote about a girl and her similarities to Harry Styles (part one). You said something along the lines of, "Go get him while he's still available!" and I just thought I should let you know, that was me. It was on my One Direction account, MyLifeWithOneDirection. Even though you probably don't remember it, I do, and I think about it a lot. Especially when we talk, you're one of the reasons I haven't lost hope. I thought since were starting to become internet friends, I would let you know, because I think you deserve to know you've made more than one difference in my life. If my wildest dreams come true (praying to everyone in control) I'll still never forget you. I'll think about you and say, "If it wasn't for her, I might've given up. I might not be in this situation without her, I owe it all to her." Thank you for being the amazing person that you are, and thank you for always supporting and talking to me. I will always know you as that girl who helped me believe, my 1D buddy, my PLL buddy, and my first insanely real and true internet friend.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
I think I do remember what you're talking about! It's vaguely coming back to me! What you said means so much to me, you have no idea. And to think that what I said to you made a difference in your life is so fulfilling and humbling that I don't even really know what to say other than thanks for letting me know! And don't give up on your dream! You should go for Harry while he's available because I mean, at the end of the day, someone has to end up with him and there's no reason that person can't be you. He always is the one who says, "If you like someone, you like someone." Even though people try to tell us that it's unlikely, and to be honest it's not the most likely thing in the world, the boys are going to one day get married to a lucky girl and you never know if that girl could be you. Even though it's like fanfiction life, you could be in a place where you meet them, hang out and they really do like you. Stranger things have happened. I always like to tell the story of Pat from Train. He saw his now wife in the crowd at one of their concerts. He thought she was so beautiful that he had security take her backstage so they could talk. Now they are married! Look at Kate Middleton. She had posters on her wall of Prince William and was basically a fan of him. Now she's married to him and a princess for heaven's sake! So it is possible and you never know what special surprise life will hand you. And I really do hope the boys come to Seattle for WWA so you have a chance!
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
Thank you so much! I honestly and whole heartedly meant everything I said to you. Words cannot describe how lucky I feel to have talked to you and realized that we have stuff in common. I just hope, if one day my dreams come true, you'll remember me and keep me grounded. I wouldn't let the 'second hand fame' so to speak, keep me from being myself; and I definitely wouldn't let it keep me from talking to you. I've actually pictured what would happen if I did start dating Harry and people on twitter started freaking out, like they did with Sophia. I've just hoped that you would have my back, because I know I would have yours if the situation were reversed. There will be a day (when my dreams come true) when I tweet, "You can have your own opinion about me, but thank you to @LetsShiftNiall for always believing in me". In all honesty, this started with me coming across your updates, then it became about asking you questions. Then it came to a point where I wished we talked more, or even at all. Then without realizing it we ended up talking almost every day on twitter about 1D or PLL or something else entirely. All I truly know is, I'm beyond glad that we started talking, and I hope that never ends.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Of course I love talking to you! Because honestly, I'm at a place right now in life where a lot of people that I know in person have just ditched me and left me for nothing. Like my best friend just one day decided to throw me away and ignored me the whole summer. And it's like, I do have some friends that I know personally but I feel closer to you sometimes then I do to them. I have 2 internet friends, you being one of them, who have more in common with me than any of them ever did and I'm so happy that I have you who I can talk to. And of course I'd have your back if one of us got famous! I'd be happy for you! (As long as you tell Harry to tell Niall about me!) But yeah, I think every true Directioner deserves the chance to be with one of the boys but especially one of my friends because I know how you feel about Harry. I wish there was enough boys for all of us!
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
You have no idea how glad I am to hear that....especially because I know what that's like. I'm closer to you than a lot of my other friends (the ones who haven't ditched me) because you understand what it's like to be a fangirl. My best friend went to the movie with me and she had a good time, but it didn't mean as much to her as it did to me. She knows their names, that's about it; whereas I feel like I've lived almost every moment with them. I had a friend who actually told me I wasn't allowed to like the boys because she liked them first, and it ruined our friendship. So I know what it's like to feel like everyone is losing you, I often feel like I'm the friend that's more of an option to others. Don't worry, I'll just straight up tell Niall about you. Once he and I kinda get to know each other a bit, I'll be like, ya know, I've made some friends because of you guys. One of them being this really awesome girl named Jenny. I always feel weird talking about One Direction to anyone, except you, because the way I talk about them, it's like I know them personally. One of my friends actually said, "I don't really have a favorite, I have the one I want to the most." She just turned 15, and I honestly get really uncomfortable when she says things like that, especially because that "one she wants to the most" is Harry. Whereas I honestly just want to at least be friends with the 5, or even just one of them because of their personalities. I don't exactly have a favorite, I just have the one I actually fell in love with. If there was enough of them for all of us I would die...it would be a miracle.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Don't you just hate it when friends do that? And I know what you mean about not being able to talk about 1D around other friends. My ex best friend was my only friend who liked the boys but she just stopped liking them once she stopped liking me! And it kills me because she even has a Liam follow on Twitter and she doesn't even care. I have 0/5 and it hurts. And I feel the same way about them! I don't have a favorite in general, I just fell in actual love with Niall. I would kill to just have five minutes with one of those boys, just to ask him how he was and to see him smile. That's it. Oh, and if I were to date Niall I would definitely do the same and tell Harry about this awesome friend I have named Lia! ;)
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
FINALLY SOMEONE WHO UNDERSTANDS LIKE MY COMPLEX LIFE PLUS BEING A TEENAGE FANGIRL. That sucks, like I don't understand how people just drop you like you're nothing. You were best friends, nothing should've gotten in the way of that. I hate when girls on twitter are like "I have 1/5 but it's only Liam" just because he follows the most people. YOU HAVE ONE FIFTH THAT'S MORE THAN SOME OF US WILL EVER HAVE. I understand the pain of 0/5 and feeling like you'll never get 1/5. You with Niall is equivalent to me with Harry; and it's hard. I know exactly what you mean, all it would take would be a chance to tell them thank you for changing my life. All I need is a moment, 5 minutes would be like the world.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
I know! Like my friend who dropped me got a boyfriend over the summer and that's fine but she just left me and ignored me. I mean it's one thing if she did that to all of her friends but I know she hung out with her other friends. I live next door to her so I see things out the window. And get this. My parents paid for her to come on a long weekend trip to see the boys. And she repaid me with the behavior. And when I confronted her she blamed it on me! Ugh makes me so mad! But anyway yeah, those people who complain about their 1/5 being Liam disgust me. Like just be happy you have 1/5. And then you wonder why he seems unhappy with the fans lately. I would do the same thing as you. I would love to just DM any of them as much as I can and just say how much they've changed my life and thank them!.
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
That's so stupid! Like a guy should never get between you and your best friend, or you and any friend! Isn't it chicks before dicks? Like yes, he is your boyfriend, but think about who came first and who's been there for you no matter what. If she's gonna do something like that she might as well own up to it. There's no point in denying it. Seeing Liam so unhappy with fans breaks my heart, like think about all the things he does for us. When we needed him to after the Crazy About 1D documentary came out, he picked us up and put us back together. He's done twitcams at midnight. He's done major follow sprees. He gives his whole life to us, he's saved some of our lives! The way people have been acting lately, it's like stabbing him in the back.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
I agree 100% with you on everything you said. True friends don't ditch you when they get a boyfriend. So when she breaks up with him, I'm not gonna be there for her. And about Liam, I don't get it. These people claim that he saved their lives yet they treat him like crap. Like they need to realize that the Liam who makes us happy needs to be happy too. I mean, I'm not gonna lie, by the looks of her, I'm not a big fan of Sophia. But maybe she's a great person and just doesn't look like it. I would never say anything mean about her though!
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
Exactly, like when they break up, she's gonna look back and you're probably going to be the one she wishes she could talk to most. Too bad she won't be able to, because she blew it. For me, Liam did save my life. I wasn't suicidal or anything like that, I don't self harm, but I wasn't in a great place. He didn't keep me from killing myself, but he did save my life. He gave me a reason to smile, he gave me a place where I can feel safe and happy, and he gave me new friends. Now he didn't do this on his own, his four other bandmates helped, but when it comes down to it, he was one of the 5 people that saved my life. I was alive, but I wasn't really living. I haven't really formed an opinion on Sophia...I don't ship her like I shipped Payzer. But I'm not going around hating her, or telling Danielle Payzer needs to happen. I just kind of let Liam and Sophia do whatever it is they do, I'm not gonna get mixed up in that; not yet.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Well, that's her loss! And I totally get where you came from with the boys saving your life. Like I was in a pretty bad place too. Like you, I wasn't self harming or contemplating suicide but I wasn't too happy. I actually discovered 1D here on Witty and it changed my life forever. I've met more true friends though 1D than I ever have in real life. I just wish more people would understand that. And yeah, I don't hate Sophia, I'm just not used to her yet.
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
Exactly. When I say, "They saved my life" people are always like "Where are your scars?" or "Where's the suicide note?" I'm like, this isn't tangible evidence, but it doesn't mean it's not true. Sophia...I feel like we don't know enough about her to judge her, but she gets so much hate nobody even bothered to try and find out about her.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Right! It's like "Do you want me to cut up my body just to prove that One Direction saved my life?" You can be depressed or upset without self harming. And yeah I wish fans would stop the Sophia hate because it's just getting old!
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
Quite frankly, I'm sick of the Sophia hate. I don't know her, but nobody's even giving her a chance, she deserves at least that much. Maybe one day, when I'm on tour with the boys, you and I will finally meet.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Me too. People need to just give the poor girl a chance. I mean yeah she's new but I doubt people like Danielle right away either. Maybe one day you'll date Harry and I'll Niall and we can hang out and shop all day while the boys are on tour. And then we'll marry them and we'll practically be sisters!
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
I remember people not really liking Danielle, but then they gave her a chance. The only reason they hate Sophia is because she's new. People didn't like Perrie in the beginning either.. That'd be perfect! We can tour with the boys, then while they're doing interviews or whatever it is they need to do we can go explore! We can hang out backstage during shows or be in the audience if we want.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Yeah I mean when I joined the fandom it was February 2012 and Danielle and Eleanor were already there. So I didn't really know what to think of them, so I just kinda went along with them and grew to like them. And then a few months after that, Perrie came along. Everyone seemed to hate her but I always thought she was really sweet! And I got into Little Mix as well. She's always been my favorite 1D girlfriend or I guess fiance now.
And that would be so fun! I mean imagine if the boys were doing a European tour. We could just see all of the amazing sights over there when the boys were busy. That would be the life.
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
I was/am into Little Mix too and I think Perrie is perfection. She's always been my favorite, and I mean the fact that she and Zayn are engaged couldn't make me happier!
That'd be amazinggg. Like traveling the world with five amazing guys, plus a friend! It would never get boring or annoying, and it would make the trip a lot easier.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Oh yeah, I totally agree with you! It would just make everything so fun! Perfect! By the way, I wanted to tell you something. Remember that friend I told you about who just started ignoring me for no reason? Well yesterday her mom called my house asking if I could let their dogs out while they were away. And I said yes because her mom is still really nice so I figured, I'd do her the favor. So I get in the house and I see that she took her cardboard cut outs of the boys and had them folded up and facing the wall! She like totally doesn't even like the boys anymore. She claimed that they saved her life and then she does that! So here's my question: If she were to set them out for the garbage, do you think I should take them? Because once you set something out to be thrown away it's okay to take it. It just hurts me to see a Directioner change so drastically...
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
It would be so fun! That's crazy...I would say just take them. She clearly doesn't want them and it's not like you're stealing them. If they had really saved her life, she wouldn't have totally dropped them. I know it hurts, but if that's how she's going to deal with it it's best to let her. There's nothing you can do to make her change her mind.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Oh well yeah I'm not going to confront her about it. It's just that she throws them away, claims that they inspire her and she has a Liam follow on twitter. Then you have people like us who actually care and it's frustrating! But anyway, enough about that. How is your first week of school going?
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
I had my first day of school today. It wasn't bad...but I have issues. I'm in a first period with all seniors (I'm a junior) and it was awkward and the teacher called me out on it...like he was like "You're only a junior right? I think you're the only one." Then this girl that's always like "Lia's my twin" because we look a lot alike (She's a senior) and she's always asking me to do stuff with her was like "Yeah we don't talk to underclassmen, but I'll say hi to you sometimes." She was dead serious and I'm not even an underclassmen, I'm just a grade below her and she's the one that always came to me for things, I wouldn't have even known her if she hadn't started talking to me at the end of last year. I'm not sure what to do because now I feel like I don't have a friend in that class and none of the seniors will even introduce themselves to me and I feel really awkward about it.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
I'm sorry that your class turned out that way! That's terrible! I can't believe that girl would treat you like that! Is there any way you could go to the office or something and see if you can switch into a different class with other juniors? If not maybe you can try to be friendly and introduce yourself. I'm sure there's someone in that class that isn't a total jerk and would be nice. I mean when I was a senior we had 1 junior girl in our math class and she was really nice. I mean we occasionally teased her but we were just joking about it. But I do know how you feel. When I was a junior I had math with almost all seniors. There were a few other juniors but they were really stuck up and rude. They basically formed a little group of juniors among the seniors and didn't include me. And I kinda had to force myself to open up and talk to the seniors. And once I did I made friends with them. I had the same thing in 10th grade. I was the only 10th grader to make it into the older choir only for upperclassmen and I made a lot of senior friends. So my advice to you is to just start by finding someone who seems nice and take it from there. Or if you can just switch classes. I just can't believe that people would act that way. They are acting more like freshman than seniors in my opinion. Good luck though and I hope the rest of your week gets better!
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
Well the class is physics and most juniors take Chemistry, so I'm gonna talk to my counselor tomorrow morning and see if I can switch into chem. I would just stick with it, but technically I'm not supposed to be in that class anyway, I just ended up there. I'm just hoping that first period chemistry isn't full because then it'll mess up my whole schedule and I like all my other classes.
If you don't mind me asking, how old are you?
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Well, I hope everything works out for you. If you aren't supposed to be in that class hopefully they can make room for you in the chem class! Chem is annoying though but it's better than physics! And I don't mind! I'm 18!
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
Apparently my issue is "Low priority" so they're leaving me in physics for now...but by the time I get into the counselor the drop period might be over, or they might just leave me in physics because of scheduling issues. Today wasn't as bad though, so it might not be that bad. That's awesome! I've always wondered but sometimes people freak out when they're asked that on the internet, so I was kind of hesitant. Question, do you think I'm 'too young' to be Harry's girlfriend? I'm 16, and a lot of people are always like "You're too young to date him anyway" or "He'd never go for you because you're so much younger" but honestly, family members who've known me my whole life have thought I was 17 or 18 when I was only 14 because I'm so mature....so I was just curious.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Well, I hope you get to switch out! And if not I really hope people are nicer to you in physics. Think of it this way, you are there to get an education, not to make friends so focus on your studies. I mean yeah friends make it easier but your grades are the most important. Junior year is a crucial year anyway. But either way I'm sure it'll work out! And yeah I totally don't mind if people ask me my age. Like if you were some creepy guy, yeah but I know you're just another girl like me so it's no big deal. And as for Harry I don't think you are too young for him. I mean right now like at this moment he might not date you because technically you are still a "child" even though you totally don't act like one. And he might not date someone who wasn't an "adult." But think about it this way, if you were say 21 and he was 24 that's not a big difference. It's just 3 years. When both of you are adults the age gap thing doesn't really matter anymore. And if you did meet Harry and it was at the point where you'd be able to spend time with him on a more regular basis you'd probably be an independent adult and on your own anyway. So basically what I'm saying is that I definitely don't think you'd be too young for him. My sister is 5 years younger than her husband so 3 years is definitely not weird at all!
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
I'm mainly just worried about doing labs/group projects and things...because we choose our partners for most of those. I will learn well with the teacher though, he likes me and had me for math last year, so he thinks I'll do fine. Once I told my mom I made an internet friend (before I met you) and she said "Are you sure it's not some fake guy just trying to get in your pants?" I was like "we talk about tacos and school...not about where I live or anything personal..." Yeah I know what you mean, it wouldn't mean as much once I was out of high school too, that would make me 17 when I graduate. It really bothers me when people are like "He wouldn't even give you a chance" well gee thanks for boosting my self esteem....
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Is there anyone in that class who is somewhat friendly? Maybe someone who is a senior but doesn't really seem to have any friends in the class either. That's the person I'd always target when I didn't have friends. Just go for the person who looks the nicest. And as for Harry don't let what people say get in your way! Just know that you love him and what they say doesn't matter. And if you do end up with Harry just be like, "Look who's laughing now! Ha!"
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
Today we did a lab. This guy that sits next to me named Spenser helped me do all the work (in our group of 4) and he's cool. Not exactly friendly, but he's not mean. Then after school this guy Michael asked me about class and I didn't know he was in there but he's super nice and it's good with him. MY THOUGHTS EXACTLY. I'm always in my mind like "I can't wait to rub it in your face."
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
That's good! I'm happy things worked out for you! I that's right! I can't wait to rub it in one day! It's going to be glorious and I can seriously picture it! It's gonna be so amazing if it actually happens!
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
I'm glad I have at least one friend, and one guy who's not about to make me do all the work...so things are looking up. I can picture it and I can't wait. I also picture the day when the girl who has "The one she wants to the most" is going to try and kill me...that will be less amazing.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Good! And that girl is not going to kill you. Harry is going to make sure that his security protects you! You'll just walk around all fab and stuff!
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
Lol I've honestly wondered how I would deal with the fans/what they would think of me...like would they like me because it's good that Harry found that fan he said he would date, or would they hate me because I'm "using him for fame"? Basically, I've always wondered would they love me for being a fan or hate me for it.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Oh same here! I always wonder, would they like me? Hate me? Would they think I'm really pretty or be like ew she's ugly why did Niall choose her? And would they hate me or like me because I was actually a fan at one time? If I was his girlfriend I'd try my best to be as nice to the fans as I could but not kiss their to get approval either. I wouldn't let hate get in the way. I'd just be walking around like I am one of the 5 luckiest girls in the world! Bam!
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
I would literally be as nice to them as possible. I could never hate any of them unless they gave me a reason to. I would do whatever it took to lead a normal-ish life but also not seem fake. I would literally just be the same person I am now, and do whatever I could. How they take it, is up to them. If they hate me, so be it. If they love me, I'm honored.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Right! That's how all of the girlfriends should act and they pretty much do! I mean it's a little harder I think for Perrie because she is a celebrity. But she's just as down to earth as Zayn is. I would be the same as you if I was a girlfriend.
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
Perrie is slightly different, but people don't hate her because she went through what the boys went through. Zerrie is seriously a match made in heaven.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
I totally agree. Zayn and Perrie are just perfect with each other! They have always been my favorite 1D couple!
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
Same! I really liked Payzer but once Zerrie was a thing I fell in love with them! I've realized that my jokes are really bad...yesterday when Harry tweeted about wanting a slip and slide I replied with "Those are so dangerous but so fun....it's a slippery slope!" Then like 2 seconds after I was like what even, why, what did I just do...I don't have any words for my stupidity at this point....sorry that was random
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Yeah, at first I really liked Elounor but then I just got disenchanted with them. Partly because I don't know whether I believe in Larry or Elounor or what. There's just some sketchy things with that. But either way I like her okay. I never really took to Payzer and I have no idea why. Most of the fandom loved them but there was always something about them that seemed forced and not genuine to me. Idk. But when Zerrie happened everyone hated it and thought it was a PR stunt. I always thought she looked super sweet and I liked her right away! Plus she's super talented! Oh and don't worry about making dumb jokes. You know who also makes dumb jokes, Harry! There's something you two have in common!
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
The thing I don't really like about Elounor is the fact that there's always arguments Elounor vs Larry and I get sick of it, so I just don't pay much attention to them anymore. Payzer I just hated how on and off they were, I wanted it to work but part of me knew it wouldn't last forever. Once I started getting into LM I was like "Okay Perrie could never do this as a PR stunt." Lol I literally took a screen shot of our twitter "conversation" and tweeted it with like "My jokes are just as bad as Harry's" and then all my friends were like "LIA WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU" and I'm like "Im sorry I thought it was funny! Actually...I thought it was punny...!" Then they were all just kinda like no.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Yeah I don't really like Elounor either. It just causes too much drama! And your joke was quite punny! Lol
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
I don't know when, but at some point I was just like "I'm not gonna ship either of them because I don't really care for all this drama". I tell so many bad jokes you'd think I would've learned to keep my mouth shut lol. You know my jokes are bad when I laugh at like 70-80% of Harry's jokes
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
The funny thing is, I think we all laugh at Harry's jokes because they are so bad that it's funny. Like it's funny how his mind works and it's really amusing and stuff. And he's so cute when he tells them. To be honest I could probably listen to his bad jokes all day!
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
I would be the person that's like "Omg that's so funny!" and be serious...that's just how bad my jokes are. I tell punny jokes and I think they're funny when in reality they just make everyone want to slap me.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Yeah but that kind of sense of humor is fun too at times. Like the other day I was at the store with my mom and there was a bowling alley right down the street. And I was like "Oh I haven't gone bowling in years!" And my mom's like "Then you should bring a friend some time and go." I have one friend in particular who would probably like to go so I go "Yeah I'll bring my friend Victoria, that should be right up her alley!" And my mom just rolled her eyes at me.
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
I actually laughed out loud....lol. So update on the physics class awkwardness. Today some kid named Allen who's a senior that I've never even talked to invited me to a party at some other guys house that he's throwing this weekend...today when he asked me was the first time I've ever talked to him.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Haha! That's good that people are starting to be nicer to you! Are you going to go to the party? It might be fun but it could be awkward if you don't know anyone there.
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
I was considering it, but I'm busy, plus when I found out it's at this guy Kyle's house, I decided not to go because I don't know Kyle. So I thought it would be weird if I showed up to his house and was like "Allen invited me" then I was just awkwardly there since Kyle doesn't know me and this is the first time I've talked to Allen lol
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Yeah that'd be kind of awkward to just show up like that. Maybe if you get to know those people better you can go another time. I'm glad things seem to be getting better at school for you!
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
Yeah they're the popular seniors so I know they'll have other parties. Things are looking up in ways I never would've expected...but that's okay I guess, unexpected could be good. Plus if things don't work out, they're seniors so they'll be gone next year anyway
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Well that's good! You sound pretty popular yourself if you're getting invited to senior parties! And that's good that things are getting better for you!
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
Lol I don't know if I'm popular....but at least I'm not totally alone! Today Allen told me to tell Sarah (the girl who said she wouldn't talk to me) that she wasn't invited to the party...so that's interesting
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Well, it's good that you aren't alone anymore. You can feel more comfortable in that class. And that is interesting. Does he like you? Do you like him? ;)
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
I definitely do, things in that class are less awkward and there are seniors that talk to me. Apparently he has a girlfriend, even though I've never seen said girl, and I don't like him. I mean he's cool I guess, but I don't really know him...the first time I ever talked to him was Monday. On the subject of boys, can I ask for you opinion/advice?
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Hmm.. that's odd! And yeah feel free to ask me anything you want!
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
So there's this guy....(isn't that how every story starts lol?) and he and I have been really close since the beginning of freshman year. Everyone, even my best friend has thought we were dating at one point or another in the past year. They've asked him, they've asked me, we both deny it, they don't believe it. I don't see him much anymore because this year we don't have any classes together. It KILLS me. When I don't see him, I'm literally put in a mood. Everyone can tell something's up, and it's been like that for a few months and it took me a while to figure he's the reason why. People have straight up told me, "I don't know why the hell you guys aren't going out already" and I don't know either....but on the other hand I don't know if I want to date him. I have like totally mixed feelings. I go from being in a crap mood all day just because I don't see him, to saying "I don't know what I would say if he asked me out". I literally cannot go a day without hugging him, or talking to him. He always knows what's on my mind, he knows me better than most people. I don't want to ever lose him, but I'm afraid I might if I make the wrong decision. I don't know what to do, rumor has it he's going to ask me to homecoming, which is late this year. People love the idea of us being together because we'd have the perfect high school relationship, the quarterback and the cheerleader. They say we flirt like we've just started dating, we argue like we've been married 80+ years, we protect each other like brother and sister, and we talk like best friends. I honestly can't deny any of that, I just don't know how I feel about it. I can't ever lose him because he's become a huge part of my life, he's kept me grounded more that I ever realized, what do I do?
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Well, it definitely sounds like the two of you have the typical relationship that you would see in any high school movie. And one thing I can tell you is that he does care about you. Whether it be like a friend or more than a friend. What I would do is first analyze the situation. Does he show you any signs that he might like you? Does he act differently with you than with other girls? Has he had other girlfriends since you guys became friends? First I think you should think about your side of it. Could you see yourself with him as his girlfriend or can you only see things the way they are now? Really think about it. Do you like him in that way? If the answer is no, then you'll be happier just being friends. If the answer is yes, then the next thing you should think about is whether to act on your feelings or not. If you do nothing and carry on the way you are, nothing may ever happen. Maybe he will ask you to homecoming, maybe not. Or your other option (the harder option) is to talk to him about it. If you talk to him and he doesn't like you in the same way, would it ruin your friendship? Guys tend to freak out if a girl they don't like says they like them. They shy away and the friendship is awkward. But if he's as good of a friend as he seems to be if you talk to him about it he will still be your friend or maybe it will turn into something more. If he likes you back then you can both be happy and move forward from there. Basically what I'm trying to say is, if he is a true friend to you, you won't lose him even if he doesn't have feelings for you. It might be awkward for awhile but he'll come around. And if he doesn't come back then he's not the guy you thought he was. This all starts with you. Analyze your feelings. If you don't like him in that way then just leave it the way it is. And if you think you do like him like that, you have to weigh out the things I just told you and decide what's more important to you. Staying safe and never really knowing what's what or taking the risk of knowing the truth but possibly compromising the friendship in the process. But again, just remember that if he lets that ruin the friendship, he was never a true friend to begin with.
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
I'm the only girl he's really close to, he talks to other girls but he and I actually have a real connection. When he hugs other girls it's like a weird side hug, when he hugs me it's long, tight and he does that weird waddle thing that guys do with long hugs. He had a girlfriend early freshman year but that pretty much ended when he met me, but she broke up with him. I honestly think I could see us together, when I think about it, it's never been a bad thought since we're practically dating already. I've become so close to him that I honestly already kinda see myself in that position...if I'm honest. I have actually talked to him about it, if anything it made us closer than ever, even though he didn't give me a straight yes or no. His effect on my life is so important/drastic that today my best friend went up to him when I wasn't around and talked to him. She asked, "Have you talked to Lia recently?" He said, "No, why?" Then she said, "She's in a bad place right now and I think you need to talk to her, in person." She knew that it was because he's not in my life very much anymore. So she literally sent him to me, he came and found me and I was totally fine the rest of the day, and EVERYONE could tell....it was like a shift in time, like I had entered another universe or become a different person.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
From what you just said right there, I think it's worth talking to him about your feelings again. It seems like he is the person who makes things right for you and that's not something you should ignore. The reason he won't give you straight answers is because that's what guys do. They aren't good at expressing their feelings. It's awkward for them and they hate to do it. Do you guys ever hang out alone? Like just the two of you? Maybe you could see if he's free this weekend or some other time soon and just tell him how you feel. Tell him what you told me. Maybe not as in depth, because that might freak him out. But tell him. And don't let him get away with a wishy-washy answer. But make sure he knows that if he's not into you that way that that you still want to be friends. I think in your situation it would be worth it to say something to him.
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
I need him around, and I need him to know how much he means to me. However, I'm the type of girl that doesn't like to always make the first move, and I feel like I always am. I get self-concious about it. I don't like to bother him or feel like I'm bothering him. I just don't know what to say or how to bring it up. He actually came to me yesterday and was holding me, and he was talking to me and trying to figure out what's wrong. I didn't know how to tell him that everything was better because he was there. I didn't know how to tell him and I didn't know if I should. I mean I feel like I should, I just don't know what to say.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Well, if he's that good of a friend, I don't think talking to him would bother him. And I know how hard it is to say something to someone when you like them. I liked this guy and I thought he liked me back. I was too scared to say anything to him and I never did. The guy I liked asked one of my friends if I liked him because he did actually like me and she said no. She stabbed me in the back and lied. And then SHE ended up dating him! So if I had just opened my mouth up and said something, things would've probably have gone differently. So if the guy you like ends up getting a girlfriend then you are definitely going to fee like you've lost him. He's not going to be able to be as close to you if he were to get a girlfriend. This is sort of random but is the guy you like generally liked by a lot of girls at school? Like do you think other girls have crushes on him? Because if he has a lot of girls interested in him and hasn't had a girlfriend in a long time, maybe he does like you. Believe me when I say that guys are TERRIBLE at expressing their feelings. Sometimes they just need that little push. By the way I wanted to tell you something. Today I was watching TV and this show called Friendzone was on. I don't know if you watch it or have heard of it but it's basically about someone who is in love with a friend and tries to get out of the friendzone by pretending that they are going on a blind date and they need that friend to help them get ready but in reality the date is for them. And then they kinda see if their friend has a thing for them or not. You might've seen it before idk. But long story short there was an episode on tonight where this girl was in love with her best friend. She told him she liked him and what do you know, he liked her back and then they were a couple! It was so cute! So it could happen for you too!
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
There are other girls that like him, especially because he's super sweet and he's not a douche guy and never could be. He's nice to everyone, smart, cute, funny and just generally fun to be around. He hasn't dated anyone since he met me, there hasn't even been a girl he's been into, according to his best friend. That's so cute! I've heard a bit about that show, but I've never watched it...maybe I'll check it out sometime. Today my best friend and I took post-its and put the batman logo on the hood of his car in post-its lol. He loves batman and so do I so it felt necessary...he hasn't said anything about it, but I'm pretty sure he knows it's me.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
That sounds cute! And I'm sure he'd know it was you! So what are you thinking? Are you going to say anything?
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
He knew it was me as soon as he saw it...I feel bad because he scratched the hood of his car with his fingers by ripping the post-its off the hood....It had nothing to do with the post-its but he was in a hurry...I have no idea what to say, or what I would say.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
He's not mad at you right? And don't worry about it. If you do say something just say exactly what you've been saying to me. Just say it how it is. Maybe he'd appreciate your honesty.
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
He said it wasn't my fault, plus I bought him lunch today, so we're good. I just need to find a time alone with him, he gets distracted so easily and it's almost hard to talk to him about these things. If it's not related to football (which is his whole life) it's like he doesn't care. He never fails to hug me though, so I guess I'm on his mind at least some times.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Aw I know how that is. He's a guy and he's single minded! Put on a sexy football jersey and then he'll notice! I'm kidding of course! Don't do that, it'd creep him out! But maybe you could just ask him if he'd want to hang out some time. There's no football on a Saturday right?
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
Hahah he's already bummed enough that coach made him switch his number, which he's been wearing since freshman year. He was always lucky 7 but now he's 18 which sucks. He has football on saturdays! They practice all the time, and he's been trying to get back in because he hurt his knee really badly at football camp this past summer and so he's been going crazy not playing. He sprained his acl and partially tore his mcl and I felt so bad for him! The day it happened I happened to be at school that night for this thing for cheer. The football players were just ending practice as I got there. When his best friend Chris found out I was giving tours, he ran around the school trying to find me. When he did he was like "You NEED to text Joey" I was like "Why?" Then he said, "He messed up his knee and can't play for at least four weeks" My heart literally dropped, I knew this must've been killing him because football is his life...my friend who was with me was literally like "Lia? Are you okay? Lia?" It was all bad.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Aww I feel bad for him! I knew a girl who played field hockey and was captain and everything but then she got a concussion and couldn't play for her senior year! And it's so heartbreaking because he's such a good friend! I hope he gets the chance to play! He's a junior like you right? So he at least has another year!
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
That's horrible! Yeah he's a junior. He'll be able to play either this Friday (probably not) or the week after. However, he's rushing back into things which is bad, so they might keep pushing the date back. I've been doing whatever I can to try and help him and talk him out of re-injuring himself, but since his whole life revolves around football it's so hard to! I just don't want him to turn out like me. I did 10 years of competitive gymnastics, but by the time I reached year 9 I fractured my back in the middle of competition season. My coaches pushed me into doing things too soon because I had qualified for the biggest meets of the season early on. I finished that season, but because of that my last season was horrible and I had to quit before I was mentally ready to. If I could, I would still be doing it, but I can't. My sophomore year, was my gap year where I didn't do any sports. Then this year I decided to do cheer, but half way through the summer my injury acted up and I haven't been able to do anything since. I have to go back to a doctor to see what's wrong because everything hurts and nothing is helping, but I just don't want him to ruin all his chances of living his dream in high school. I was on my way to Junior Olympics and possibly Olympic tryouts, now I can't even walk around without pain.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Omg I feel bad for all of you! That just sucks if your dream was to be a star athlete and now you can't. Keep pushing him not to rush so that he can keep playing. Injuries need to be taken seriously! And I can't believe that you might've been in the Olympics one day! You must've been really really good! Gymnastics is still my favorite Olympic sport and that's just awesome! I was never really the athletic type. I'm a singer but it's the same thing. If you injure your voice you can't sing, if you injure your body you can't play.
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
I literally saw my whole world crumble, then to make it worse, my coaches thought it was my choice to quit! They were like "You have so much potential! You shouldn't quit!" I was like "I DON'T WANT TO BUT I HAVE TO." By the time I was 14 I was level 9/10...so that's not bad. According to my coaches, "You should be level 10 by age 12, you're behind but you could get there." I'm still trying to talk him out of it, but during football season he's just like every other teenage boy, a football meat head. Did I tell you at the first game of the season on the 6th, I talked to his dad without realizing it? Talk about awkward....
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Yeah that is awkward but it's not like anything bad happened. And I'm really sorry about you not being able to compete! That's really sad!
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
It's okay, it is what it is I guess.
It was so weird, like he didn't even introduce me to his dad or anything. I was just talking to Joey, then his dad came over on the other side of me and started talking to me. So I had his dad on one side talking to me, and him on the other side talking to me. It was so weird. I actually got into a conversation with his dad and Joey ended up leaving me alone with him!
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Oh wow! That's really uncomfortable! I would just hate that. Like any time you are left alone with any friends' parent it's like "omg what do I say to you?" So awkward
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
Especially because I knew who he was, but I didn't know him and it was my first time talking to him! Today was also awkward and a bit annoying, with my friends at cheer practice. I can't do anything right now because I have to go to the doctor on Friday. I was sitting with my friend Anne who's also hurt, Rafael our mascot, and this girl Jaimie who's sick. Rafael goes "So Lia, how's your boo thang?" I was like "No not this again!" Anne was like "Who you and Joey?" Then Jaimie (She doesn't know Joey) was like "Who? Who? Who??" Then Anne and Rafael started talking about it and I was like "I hate you guys!" Rafael was like "I know he really likes you" they hang out so I was like "Has he told you that?" Then Rafael was like "No but I can tell by the way he looks at you, and the way he acts when someone says your name." In my mind I was like "So you guys talk about me...?" But instead I was just like "Whatever Rafael." Then Anne was like "You guys totally like each other." I kept saying I didn't and they kept saying we did, and Jaimie kept asking who he was. Then finally I was like "If I say yes will you guys shut up?" They were all like "YES." Then Jaimie was like "WHO?" Anne said, "Joey, Joey Kane he's a junior." Then Jaimie was like "IS THAT WHO ALL YOUR TWEETS ARE ABOUT??" Anne and Rafael both go, "Yeah probably." I was like "Wow, I hate you guys." Then after practice, Rafael was like, "Lia, tell Joey, tell your boo thang I say hi" which wasn't so bad, except a few football players were near by and I'm pretty sure they heard him.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Ooh this is getting really awkward. I hope they didn't hear! But I really do think it's time to talk to Joey. If everyone thinks he likes you then there's a good chance he does! Just talk to him and have a heart to heart. Honestly, what do you have to lose at this point? You are going through so much anguish about this and I think you'll feel better if you just talk with him. I know it's not easy but you should try. And I know he's really busy but I think he can spare what a half hour just to talk to you. Maybe it will turn out really well and then you can be happy!
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
Ahdfkla;dng;eug;aefjkd;agfkdfjhdkfjwehu! I'm scared! People always say, "Just talk to him, you guys are like best friends, what are you afraid of?" I can't! I'm actually a really shy person, like I honestly still fear initiating a hug sometimes.....I'm afraid of talking to him, last time I did it didn't end badly but I felt hella awkward forever about it. Plus, I feel like since it was only like 3 months ago, I feel like he'll think it's weird and I don't want him to freak...people say he won't, but I don't know that. I know him better than anyone, except his best friend Chris, but I don't know how he'll react and that scares me.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Are you at all comfortable talking to Chris? Maybe he could give you a little insight to what's going on. Or just sit down with Joey and just tell him you really need a straight answer to clear your own mind. And if he won't then just don't talk about it again. You know he won't get angry at you. I think you'll feel better if you just do this!
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
When Chris told me about Joey's injury, that was the 2nd time I'd ever talked to him. I've only talked to him once since then....so not really. I know he won't get mad, but at the same time, I don't wanna make him uncomfortable. Plus, people always ask me "What are you gonna do about it?" or "If he asked you out what would you say?" I honestly have no idea. So I don't wanna bring it up and have him ask those kinds of questions and have me not know the answers and make things worse
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Well, you could always try to think of the answers ahead of time. I mean if he won't get mad then I don't think you have anything to lose. And if things get weird just say forget it and change the subject. I mean just carry on the way you have been. But if you tell him you want an honest answer then maybe he'll give you one.
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
Well all my friends call him my boo thang now...so whatever. As long as they don't go up to him like "Hey Lia's boo thang" I don't really care. Today Rafael was like "Lia, Lia, there's your boo thang, act cool, act cool" I was like "I would've been fine if you hadn't said anything...it's not like I've never talked to him before and I'm trying to seem cool. He knows what a complete dork I am..." Oh my gosh, speaking of my dorkiness. Today, he came over to me at lunch (he always finds me to make sure he gets a hug) and I hugged him and after he let go I was like "You smell really good." Then he was like "Thanks" THEN I LEANED IN AND SNIFFED HIM. OH MY GOD. In my mind it made perfect sense and seemed totally normal, then right after I did I was like crap that probably seemed really weird...but he didn't say anything about it so I guess it's okay...
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Oh that is really awkward! But at least you didn't like sniff him out of nowhere and then tell him he smelled good. You already told him so he probably didn't think anything of it. And tell Rafael to cut it out! Does he like someone? Because if he does you should embarrass him when they come around!
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
I can be such an awkward person without realizing it! Like in my mind it was TOTALLY normal. He doesn't, so I can't. A Series of Awkward Events, and autobiography written by me. Today, Rafael was like "How's your boo thang?" I was like "Good." Then my friend Legacy was behind me and I didn't know, so she was like "Who's your boo thang?" I was like "Nobody..." Then Rafael was like "Joey." She was like "Joey? Joey with the knee thing?" I nodded and she was like "Lia, he's so sweet, and nice and cute, he really deserves a girlfriend." I was like "Are you telling me to go out with him?" She was like, "Yeah, I'll talk to him tomorrow in autoshop. I'll be like, Joey, you know my girl Lia? You should get on that." Rafael just thinks Joey and I are made for each other, according to him, Joey's "gonna wife me".
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Oh do you really think that she's going to say something to him? Maybe you should get to him first! And I think Rafael is right! I think you really need to talk to him, no matter how awkward it may be!
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
I doubt it, she probably already forgot. I tried to talk to him after school today. I saw him and I was like "Hey Joey" he turned towards me then just like blew me off to go talk to some other girl...so that's that for today.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
That was incredibly rude of him! Why on earth would he do that? Maybe he isn't who you thought he was.
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
I have no idea...it's really uncharacteristic of him. People had been saying he was acting weird today, so maybe it had something to do with that? But I don't see what the other girl had to do with it. When I saw him before 5th period he came up to me, hugged me and walked me to class with his arm around me. Now, that's not unusual for us, but it was weird because he pulled me in super tight, like tighter than ever. When he talked he didn't sound the same either...I could tell something was different and I meant to ask him about it after school, but he blew me off.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Maybe his knee injury was bothering him? Got bad news about it from the doctor? Or maybe something at home. If he was nice to you earlier in the day, I'm sure he's not mad. He was probably just having an off day. See if you can talk to him tomorrow.
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
He went to the doctor after school today, actually. He's officially cleared to play! I feel like part of it might be because someone mentioned (maybe, not for sure) the whole "Boo thang" thing to him...? I don't know if people have for sure, but I wouldn't put it past Rafael to do something like that. If it is that, it doesn't necessarily mean Joey doesn't like me, he's just always been unsure of what people think of him. So he might think I don't like him, or I don't know and he doesn't want it to get to me and have me get mad or something. Who knows, but I'll try talking to him tomorrow for sure.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Yeah! You definitely need to talk with him! Let me know how that goes!
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
I never really got a chance to talk to him, he always changed the subject! Today, my friend took my phone to call someone, then when I got it back I realized she'd been taking pictures of me and him from behind. OH. Legacy told me today that she talked to him, but she didn't tell me what he said, so I'm gonna ask her tonight at the game since I still can't cheer.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
That's so frustrating! Let me know what she says though!
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
I only heard part of the conversation, but this is what I got:
Legacy: Hey, Joey you should talk to Lia.
Joey: Why don't you talk to her?
Legacy: I mean like, you should try and get a relationship with her...you guys would be a good couple.
Joey: What makes you say that?
Legacy: You're both like, white-wash Asian (white Asian), cheerleader and a football player, and you guys would just be really cute together.
She said the once he asked why she thought we would be cute together, Chris (his best friend) and Manny (another football player) got in the conversation, like agreeing with her. Now, Chris I kinda understand, but I've never even talked to Manny before...but he obviously knows who I am. So basically, all his friends want us together, all my friends want us together, and they're all collectively pushing us together.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Well, it looks like the only thing wrong is with you and Joey! All of your friends approve everyone approves, Jesus approves! Now you and Joey just need to talk. That's the bottom line!
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
Sorry it took me so long to get back to you, I was out of town, no internet no cell service!
Yeah, it's primarily just us...I knew all my friends wanted it to happen, I didn't know his friends did though! Even my cheer coach thinks we'd be the cutest couple ever. When we were leaving the game on Friday, the boys were leaving the field and the cheerleaders were headed out and my friend Jaimie yells, "LIA LOVES YOU NUMBER 18!" Then after the game, when we were back at school, Legacy and I were waiting with Jaimie until her dad came to pick her up. Joey came out of the locker room with Manny and Chris. The three guys were walking, then Legacy and Jaimie grabbed me and started walking. Then Joey like broke off from the group and was headed towards me, and I broke off and headed towards him. Then he hugged me and put his arm around me. At first it wasn't weird/different, like he always puts his arm around my shoulders, but he moved his arm so it was down lower by my ribs. He pulled me in super tight too, and he was walking with me and talking to me. I could hear Jaimie and Legacy a few feet behind us freaking out about it too...it was...I don't know. We weren't even walking towards his car or my car, we were just like walking around the parking lot.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
OMG Lia! That's the moment in the movie where you are supposed to kiss or something! Like you need to move!! Gah! You can tell your friends that you have another person on the other side of the country that is dying for this to happen too!
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
AKDJFHALKFDN I DIDN'T KNOW WHAT TO DO. So I basically just walked around with him and we laughed and kal;fdabjflnsdslsdkd.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Well, think about it for next time! You can make this happen, I know you can!!
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
Jaimie today was like "I'm gonna set you up with Joey." Then another one of my friends, Dagney was like "How do you like Joey, do you guys even talk?" When Legacy brought up me and Joey and pretty much everyone was like "Dagney have you been living under a rock?"
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Ugh I feel like you are so close! You just need a breakthrough!
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
SAME! Jaimie just sent me a pic she took from Friday night of me and Joey, our arms were around each other, and I was looking up at him BUT IT WAS BLURRY. IT WOULD'VE BEEN THE CUTEST PICTURE EVER BUT IT WAS BLURRY.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Ugh that sucks! Try again next game! I want to see that picture!
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
WE GOT A BETTER PICTURE TODAY. Jaimie took a pic of us hugging, wanna add me on fb or something so I can show you so I don't have to post them on twitter?
Anyway, Jaimie got the pic because I needed to talk to him bc everyone bugging us was getting annoying and I wanted him to know I wasn't telling people to bug him cuz that's how they made it sound.
Me: I know people have been bugging you a lot lately, and I'm really sorry.
Him: Bugging me about what? People bug me all the time.
Me: Bugging you about me. I'm really sorry about it. I didn't ask them to do that and I really wish they wouldn't.
Him: Don't worry about it, it's just annoying. All I hear about in 2nd period is this from Legacy and Chris and Manny.
Me: Me too, it's like all Legacy talks about.
Then we kinda laughed about it, and we had our arms around each other, while we walked towards the football field so he could coach. As soon as we got there all the kids he coach's started singing, "Coach's got a girlfriend! Coach's got a girlfriend!" Then they were like staring me down and I stood their while he talked to another coach, then he walked down the field a ways to talk to the other coach. Then he ran back towards me and kinda tackled me in a hug and said, "Bye Lia." Then he had his arm around me and he one of the kids was like "Is this your girlfriend?" Joey shook his head and said, "No" then he and I kinda laughed about it because we were just talking about it.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Aww well at least you got a good picture of yourselves together! I really want to see what this guy looks like!! Even the kids he coaches thinks you are together! But at least he's cool with everything that's going on! And yeah, I'll add you on FB. What's your name on there?
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
Here's a link to my profile https://www.facebook.com/lia.mclanahan
Yeah, that's good, but I kinda wish I knew more where he stood. I mean, he said it was annoying, even I understand that, he wasn't at all mad about it and he never denied it to anyone. My friend noticed that he's starting to act a lot like me lately and we had this theory. Since we don't have classes together we think he might subconsciously be picking up my habits, as a way of dealing with my absence. We spent so much time together last year, we became a part of each other's daily lives, now we barely get to see each other. She noticed a few things actually, all things she's noticed I do a lot that I've been doing for years. He used to be very straight forward all the time, but now if there's something he doesn't want to tell you the truth about, he asks counter-questions instead of actually giving you a real answer. When he's confused he makes the same exact face as I do, spot on, I've been making that face since I could talk. When someone says something stupid he says, "You're ugly" I've been saying that since 7th grade. He's started talking to himself, a lot lately, which I'm pretty much known for, and she doesn't think he even realizes he's doing it. When someone's really annoying I usually say, "Shut up (person's name)" in a really specific way and she said between the two of us she hears, "Shut up Karina" too many times in one day. She said the other day he said that to her, and it sounded so much like me that her immediate response was "Shut up Lia" because she wasn't looking at him, she was talking to someone else and he overheard.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Wow that's really creepy that he started doing that! There's definitely something going on! And I added you on FB! I went into your friends (I'm not a stalker I promise!) and I really wanted to see Joey! If he's the guy in your friends then he's such a cutie!! You guys would look perfect together!
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
Yeah he's the guy in my friends lol, Joey Jlg Kane...I figured you would do that so it's okay. I would only find it weird if you added him or something but I'm pretty sure you wouldn't. My friend has classes with him but not with me so she's always like, "I think it's you and then I get confused because we don't have classes together!"
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Yeah I wouldn't add him! That would be really creepy considering he doesn't know me at all. And it would be so obvious why I added him considering that you would be our only mutual friend lol.
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
Did you see the pictures?
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Oh yeah duh! I forgot to mention that! My computer was slow that day and it barely let me do anything! And yeah OMG you looked hella cute together!!! I ship this! OTP
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
Oh yeah! Speaking of people rooting for us, I have a kinda funny story for you! Actually I have a few since we had a game last night. The game was early, it started at 5. During the game since I'm injured and can't cheer I was down on the turf with Rafael because he's our mascot and he does flips and stuff so he needs extra space. The stadium we were at has platforms for the cheerleaders instead of a track, so we were on the field since they have extra turf instead of a track. The team was really close to us, and they were warming up a bit after half time. Joey was tossing the ball with this guy Robert who I've known my whole life and who's also dating Jaimie. But anyway, Rob had the ball and Joey was supposed to catch it, but he looked right at me and we made eye contact then he missed the ball. He legit dropped the ball and Rob was like "What the hell was that?" Then he looked in the direction Joey was looking, and he was like "Oh I see" and I quickly looked away, because pretty much the whole football team wants us together. Throughout the whole game I saw Joey talking to some of the guys, and they would look at me, then look back. He would talk with them one on one, so like 4 different conversations with 4 different guys and each time they'd look at me at least twice. Then he was also talking to his dad who's always on the field because he takes pictures of all the games. His dad kept looking at me and at one point he pointed to me and Joey kept looking at me, and they talked for a really long time. Then since it was an early game and we got back to school and it wasn't even 8:30 I was hanging with Rob, Gavin, Jaimie and Legacy. Legacy calls herself the matchmaker because she set a lot of her friends up with their boyfriends. Gavin calls himself the love guru because he gives guys advice a lot. Somehow they got into an argument on which one of them helped set me and Joey up the most/best so far, then they decided to become a team. As a joke I was like, "Let's see how long it takes both of you together, to get this to work." Then Rob was like, "Want us to talk to him? Get the whole team in it?"
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Wow! I just don't get why this hasn't happened yet! Like what's the hold up? I mean everything seems to be in place!
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
It's literally him...he's stubborn and everyone knows it. He's stubborn and he's kinda oblivious to hints, so you really have to spell things like this out for him. Apparently some of the guys on the football team think we (the cheerleaders) hate/don't care about them so we decided to start doing locker signs for them (we usually only do it for basketball for some reason). They were assigned, and I got Joey which means once a week until football season is over, I have to make a sign for him to hang up in the boys varsity locker room....He better freaking keep these forever because I spent like 2 hours on his first one.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
maybe you should just say it outright because he obviously isn't getting the hints. Oh and have fun with those signs!
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
I have gotten better about talking to him about these things, but I'm not ready to relive that. I'm just gonna go with things this way for a bit longer, I will talk to him about it though.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
That sounds like a good plan if that's what's comfortable for you. Are you going to homecoming with him? I know it's about that time of year
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
Nobody's really even started asking yet because our homecoming is really late (Oct 25) so idk. People have told him to ask me, I've been told to ask him, we'll see what happens. I'm not gonna ask him though, because I would only go if I got asked. I'm just not a school dance kind of person, so I can always find something that I'd enjoy more.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Yeah I understand how you feel. I never went to those things either. They are really boring to me. And if I didn't get asked. I didn't go
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
That's pretty much how I am too. I went to HC my freshman year and that was enough for me. I think I'm gonna go to all the school dances my senior year though, just because it's senior year. I'm not planning on going to hc this year unless I get asked, so whatever.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Yeah I went my freshman year too. And then I went my sophomore year as well because I thought this guy I liked at the time would be there and he wasn't. I didn't go ever again then because I never even had friends who wanted to go. They all wanted to just go senior year but they're a year younger than me so I kinda missed out. I really don't care to be honest.
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
In all honesty, I kinda feel like the only dance that's like a right of passage is Prom. The others don't really mean anything to me.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Yeah I agree. But I didn't go to my senior prom either lol
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
Lol I just like the idea of prom because the way people ask is super cute, and it's primarily seniors unless they ask an underclassmen, and it's just like a last moment that all the seniors will share together.
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Sorry I didn't respond until now. Never got a notification. Yeah I think it's cute too. I never wanted to go because people in my high school were so stupid. None of the guys were right.
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
Haha yeah....everyone is rooting for us
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Yeah I wouldn't add him! That would be really creepy considering he doesn't know me at all. And it would be so obvious why I added him considering that you would be our only mutual friend lol.
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PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
Sorry it took me so long to get back to you, I was out of town, no internet no cell service!
Yeah, it's primarily just us...I knew all my friends wanted it to happen, I didn't know his friends did though! Even my cheer coach thinks we'd be the cutest couple ever. When we were leaving the game on Friday, the boys were leaving the field and the cheerleaders were headed out and my friend Jaimie yells, "LIA LOVES YOU NUMBER 18!" Then after the game, when we were back at school, Legacy and I were waiting with Jaimie until her dad came to pick her up. Joey came out of the locker room with Manny and Chris. The three guys were walking, then Legacy and Jaimie grabbed me and started walking. Then Joey like broke off from the group and was headed towards me, and I broke off and headed towards him. Then he hugged me and put his arm around me. At first it wasn't weird/different, like he always puts his arm around my shoulders, but he moved his arm so it was down lower by my ribs. He pulled me in super tight too, and he was walking with me and talking to me. I could hear Jaimie and Legacy a few feet behind us freaking out about it too...it was...I don't know. We weren't even walking towards his car or my car, we were just like walking around the parking lot.
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Vic Fuentes* · 1 decade ago
Hey Jenny! I was just wondering about the whole Niall and Ellie thing. I've kind of gathered some evidence, but yeah anyway:
1) There was this article which read that Rochelle, from the Saturdays, has to approve of Niall's girlfriends before he can proceed to do anything 'more' with the girl... A few days before the Niall and Ellie thing broke out (The one of them kissing at the V Festival), Niall had posed in a picture with Rochelle and her husband. If they met up, Niall would have obviously talked about Ellie.
*Article: http://uk.omg.yahoo.com/news/rochelle-wiseman-approve-direction-nialls-girlfriends-080450393.html
2) Niall and Ellie both seem to have a crush on eachother but they don't want to show it, obviously because of the whole 7 years gap thing. Ellie has been keeping her mouth shut about her and Niall's relationship. What's really funny is that Ellie mentioned that everytime she mentions her love life, it messes up or something like that. So technically, she's already put Niall in her love life.
3) Niall hasn't denied it.

Sorry if it's long, but I wasn't sure of what to think when this story broke out. Remember when Harry was dating Caroline Flack? She was years older than Harry, and Niall had said 'Since when were wrinkles pretty?' Yet, he's doing the same thing with dating someone 7 years older. Ellie is a pro at this dating thing and if she gets bored of Niall, she'll break up with him and then poor Niall is left heartbroken. And the thing that bothers me is that apparently Ellie had broken up with her boyfriend, days after the Niall and Ellie relationship broke out. D:
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
Whoa whoa, hold your horses there! Don't go into conspiracy land! About Rochelle, I'm sure she doesn't literally have to approve of Niall's girlfriends. She just said that because she cares about Niall as a good friend but she's not the boss of him. 2nd, Niall didn't kiss Ellie at V Fest. The article is BS. I'm pretty sure there would be pictures if that had been real. 3rd, the fact that Ellie won't make any comments about Niall honestly means nothing. Some people like to keep their business private. Remember when rumors about Liam dating Leona Lewis came out? She said the same thing. That she wasn't going to discuss her personal/love life. And she wasn't ever dating Liam so this is no different. And another thing. Remember when Niall was rumored to be dating Demi and all these articles came out? Demi tweeted that just because something was in quotes, didn't mean she said anything. So Ellie might not have even said that. And Niall didn't deny it at the movie premier when he was asked because they were told to focus only on questions about the movie premier and not their personal lives. That's why he said, "Hey we're doing a movie here!" He didn't want rumors and stuff getting in the way. Another thing is, when on earth have they had any time together to even be dating. The whole week Niall had off he was golfing with Marvin (Rochelle's husband), having a BBQ with friends and at V Fest (Not with Ellie). Then they had the premier which she didn't attend (or the after party). She's been touring with Bruno Mars and busy with her own career. Then this whole week he's been chilling at home and in NYC. Then after they go home, he plans to spend time in Ireland with his friends in Mullingar and stay there though his birthday. She's not going to be there, she's working and stuff. Then they go to Australia a week after that. So it's like, when is there time for a relationship to have even started? He said himself in a lot of interviews recently that he just doesn't have time for a girlfriend right now. He's too busy. So I'm about 99.999% sure that he isn't dating Ellie. I mean if I'm wrong I'm sorry but I just don't see how they can be dating. I hope that helped you!
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Vic Fuentes* · 1 decade ago
omg thankyou! You have no idea how much this cleared up everything. THANK YOU. I swear, this boyband will be the death of me. Yeah, all I needed was a few things to help rebuttal my points with this whole 'Nellie' drama. It's been a full on week for sure! I had to comfort like a lot of the Zayn girls, since the engagement went public, and then I had to settle down some Liam and Sophia haters. It's just, wow, full on. But omg, THANK YOU. It's helped a ton!
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beary0630 · 1 decade ago
No problem! It's like everyone is freaking out over Nellie when if you look at the recent weeks past, there has been no time for them to even form a relationship so how could they be dating? Glad I could clear this up for you!
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