i need some advice..
i have this boyfriend. he's super amazing and he really is a great guy. Lately, though, i feel like i honestly dont know who he his. he makes up shitttty excuses and hardly talks to me. he's extremely busy with hockey and im extremely busy with basketball but i always seem to find time to send him a quick "hey" text whenever i can. he doesnt ever do that. he was one of those guys who used to text me every morning at 6:40 because he knew that that was the time i got up, even though his school started an hour before mine. he never ever missed a "goodnight :]" text either, but now, i never get them. its rare if i talk to him everyday anymore. we live a good half an hour away from each other and neither one of us has our license. hanging out is extremely difficult and it is a lot of planning if we want to. i havent seen him in over 50 days.. ive texted him after every single one of my games too, telling him how we did and what not. all he ever has to say anymore is, "nice." and thats it. i feel like he doesnt care about me anymore and when i ask him, he turns it around so that im the one who wants to end this thing. i dont know what to do. what do you guys think? my friends used to like him but now, they say he's giving them every reason not too. i dont know what to do anymore, im fed up with everything.. :/
buuuuut to add a twist onto the whole situation, i have this great guy best friend. he's been there for me through everything and i can trust him 100%. i know he's got my back and i have his. i help him with his lady troubles frequently and he tries to give me advice about my bf issues. he doesnt know what to say either though. thats not the point, anyways.. we've been talking alot lately and hanging out at school and at games and stuff. we just had a pretty deep talk last night about this girl that played him and how i dont like her. he then randomly asked me if i liked him. i had a talk with my friends about how they all want me to date him and what not. even, my friends bf thinks so. i personally think itd be awkward but they dont see it that way. i told him about the talk we had and he said that if it were to happen in the future, he wouldnt mind. i got butterflies, which scares me. i reallly like my boyfriend but im afraid that if he doesnt act quickly, my bestfriend my swoop in. :/
so, what im asking of you ladies or guys, is to give me advice on what i should do about my boyfriend or tell me about something that relates to you and how you fixed it.. its greatly appreciated.
&&thankyou if you're still reading this. :]