you may not be her first, her last or her only. she loved you before, she may love again, but if she loves you now, what else matters? shes not perfect, you arent either, and the two of you may never be perfect together. but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice & admit to being human & making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. she may not think about you ever second, but she will give you a part of her she knows you can break. so dont hurt her, dont analyze and dont expect more then she can give. smile when she makes you happy, let her know when your mad and miss her when shes not there.