If you think a woman in a tan vinyl bra and underwear, grabbing her crotch, and grinding up on a dance partner is raunchy, trashy, and offensive but you don't think her dance partner is raunchy, trashy, and offensive as he sings a song about the "blurred" lines of consent and propagating r.ape culture, then you may want to reevaluate your acceptance of double standards and your belief in stereotypes about how men vs. women "should" and are "allowed" to behave.