"cry me a river,build a bridge and get over it"
People seem to always be telling me that, but what they don't quite understand is that it takes
awhile for a good strong bridge to be built, if you rush into it and build it quickly it won't be able to
support anything and just collapse. That's how it work with emotions too. That's the same way
your heart functions. You need to make sure it's strong enough before applying to muc force.
it takes time.