stephanutter · 1 decade ago
You're beautiful.
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crazyflowergirl · 1 decade ago
hey, hang in there!! You can pull through anything, stay strong :)
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akp1015 · 1 decade ago
Hi, I just wanted to say that I can relate to so many of your quotes, and if you ever need someone to talk to i'm here!
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funnyboy2 · 1 decade ago
Never heard of u till now
CMM
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wittygirl1 · 1 decade ago
I'm doing some better now.
But thanks for your offer to help :)
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seafoam* · 1 decade ago
Oh, no problem. You asked for help, I offered it, and I'd be an idiot to not follow through. I'm so happy to hear that you're already feeling better, and I sincerely hope that happiness stays with you. You deserve to smile. <3

Good luck with everything, and like I said, I'm still here if you need somebody to lean on.
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seafoam* · 1 decade ago
Thank you for commenting on my profile. It means a lot that you've put your trust in me, and I hope I can be of some help to you.

My guess is as good as yours when it comes down to figuring out the nooks and crannies of your friend's brain. It makes it even more difficult to grasp from a male's perspective, because I don't know about you, but I don't understand how guys' minds work AT ALL. Unfortunately, we'll never be mind readers or anything useful like that, so we have to work with what we've got. In this case, communication goes a long way. No 'friend' should put you down and hurt you constantly, and it sounds like that's exactly what yours is doing. Make him aware of this. I would suggest waiting until you're completely alone with him and you have his full attention, because you most likely won't get your message across if he's surrounded by others. When you speak to him, look him directly in the eye and tell him exactly what you told me - that you don't want to give up but you're tired of being hurt. Let him tell his side, too, and actually listen to what he's got to say. His feelings are just as important as yours, and hopefully, by communicating with each other, you'll both get a better understanding of each other and your friendship will become more flexible, able to bend without breaking.

If his words and actions continue to make you feel unwanted and unneeded, let the friendship go. As hurtful as it may be, let it go. Look out for yourself, and love yourself enough to step out of a bad situation, and put yourself into a good one. You're beautiful, and you deserve the best.

If there's anything, anything at all you need, you can always comment on my profile again. I'm here to help. I don't want you to feel like you're alone, because you're not. Stay strong. <3
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