PowerTumbler411
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1 decade ago
It's not a matter of what to do. The feelings will come back, the real thing is, will you choose to act on them? You may think you're thinking of him as a boyfriend or you might just like him for being your best friend. Those two things aren't all that different, but one move could turn one into the other, or be making a mistake. Now I'm not saying you don't like either boy, but the real question you need to ask yourself is, who makes you happier? If you have no reason to complain about how you feel when you're with your senior boyfriend, stay with him if it's what makes you happy. If you feel like you're happier with your ex-boyfriend, go to him. Do what's right for you, even if it feels wrong at first. reply
Laneyloo
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1 decade ago
Thank you so much you 2(: I knew I could always count on my witty friends to help me!
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Till_Death_Do_Us_Part
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1 decade ago
Well, i can try to help. You might just need to sit her down, and explain to her. Explain your feelings for him, tell her your really trust this boy, and that you want her to meet him, and all that good stuff. Thats what i did with my husband when i wanted to intruduce him to my dad. (of course he wasnt my husband then) but he understood. And im sure your mom will too if you just let her know exactly how you feel about this kid. I mean i dont know, ive never really had to deal with mom things. Ive always just had my dad. Im not saying that this is gonna work, but its worth a shot!!(: Good luck hun!!!(: reply
wallenbee
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1 decade ago
Hmm well I'm kind of in a long distance relationship, except it's not official. We've been "talking" for about 2 years now, so maybe I can help. My mom knows about him so when he comes to California, I get to go see him. What I did before I actually told my mom is I would subtly drop his name into conversation, like I'd say, "oh yes my friend Nick likes that show" or ssomething along those lines, that way she'd get used to hearing his name. Then, once I was done with that I would talk about him nonstop. Everytime I texted him I made sure my mom knew who I was texting, or skyping, or talking on the phone with. That way she'd realize something was obviously going on. If he flew out to Montana, would he be staying at your house? I don't really know how you could ask about that, but I guess once your mom realizes that you two are a couple, you could slowly strart saying things like "I really want to see him" or "I wish he could come here" just so she could warm up to the idea and you could kind of get an idea of how she'd feel about it. This is what I'd do, it's worked so far with my mom, but all moms are different I guess. Good luck! (: reply
amberclareXO
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1 decade ago
Love is love. No one has the authority to come between you to, if you two truly love each other, they should understand and accept that. Whether they like it or not. I've a girl of 12 with a 16-year-old boy before, now that can be called inappropriate in my opinion, but yours and your boyfriends relationship looks totally fine to me. 2 years is not a lot. But after all, age doesn't matter in a relationship. Love does. I wish you the best of luck. :] xo reply
WonderfulLove
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1 decade ago
Don't end things.
I totally understand because I turn 15 in January & my boyfriend had turned 17 in April.
Our parents would totally not understand if they knew about our relationship.
Don't let anyone tear you apart. It is not wrong. reply
MadisonMichaela
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1 decade ago
I completely agree with \/ reply
Zombiee
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1 decade ago
Best advice you could ever get = tell him how you feel, tell him the truth. if he loves you he'll understand reply
ashleeyHunn
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1 decade ago
Go with who You like. Because its better to be happy with your choice than be with someone you think you belong with than the one you like reply
sjtrue
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1 decade ago
Oh he said they are too pretty!?! Yeah no....tell him off reply
icarly26
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1 decade ago
Not at all, I would be so upset. Probably cry reply
Laneyloo
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1 decade ago
Im glad other people agree):
PowerTumbler411 · 1 decade ago
It's not a matter of what to do. The feelings will come back, the real thing is, will you choose to act on them? You may think you're thinking of him as a boyfriend or you might just like him for being your best friend. Those two things aren't all that different, but one move could turn one into the other, or be making a mistake. Now I'm not saying you don't like either boy, but the real question you need to ask yourself is, who makes you happier? If you have no reason to complain about how you feel when you're with your senior boyfriend, stay with him if it's what makes you happy. If you feel like you're happier with your ex-boyfriend, go to him. Do what's right for you, even if it feels wrong at first.
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Laneyloo · 1 decade ago
Thank you so much you 2(: I knew I could always count on my witty friends to help me!
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Till_Death_Do_Us_Part · 1 decade ago
Well, i can try to help. You might just need to sit her down, and explain to her. Explain your feelings for him, tell her your really trust this boy, and that you want her to meet him, and all that good stuff. Thats what i did with my husband when i wanted to intruduce him to my dad. (of course he wasnt my husband then) but he understood. And im sure your mom will too if you just let her know exactly how you feel about this kid. I mean i dont know, ive never really had to deal with mom things. Ive always just had my dad. Im not saying that this is gonna work, but its worth a shot!!(: Good luck hun!!!(:
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wallenbee · 1 decade ago
Hmm well I'm kind of in a long distance relationship, except it's not official. We've been "talking" for about 2 years now, so maybe I can help. My mom knows about him so when he comes to California, I get to go see him. What I did before I actually told my mom is I would subtly drop his name into conversation, like I'd say, "oh yes my friend Nick likes that show" or ssomething along those lines, that way she'd get used to hearing his name. Then, once I was done with that I would talk about him nonstop. Everytime I texted him I made sure my mom knew who I was texting, or skyping, or talking on the phone with. That way she'd realize something was obviously going on. If he flew out to Montana, would he be staying at your house? I don't really know how you could ask about that, but I guess once your mom realizes that you two are a couple, you could slowly strart saying things like "I really want to see him" or "I wish he could come here" just so she could warm up to the idea and you could kind of get an idea of how she'd feel about it. This is what I'd do, it's worked so far with my mom, but all moms are different I guess. Good luck! (:
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amberclareXO · 1 decade ago
Love is love. No one has the authority to come between you to, if you two truly love each other, they should understand and accept that. Whether they like it or not. I've a girl of 12 with a 16-year-old boy before, now that can be called inappropriate in my opinion, but yours and your boyfriends relationship looks totally fine to me. 2 years is not a lot. But after all, age doesn't matter in a relationship. Love does. I wish you the best of luck. :] xo
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WonderfulLove · 1 decade ago
Don't end things.
I totally understand because I turn 15 in January & my boyfriend had turned 17 in April.
Our parents would totally not understand if they knew about our relationship.
Don't let anyone tear you apart. It is not wrong.
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MadisonMichaela · 1 decade ago
I completely agree with \/
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Zombiee · 1 decade ago
Best advice you could ever get = tell him how you feel, tell him the truth. if he loves you he'll understand
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Laneyloo · 1 decade ago
thanks (:
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cupcake_lover88 · 1 decade ago
Um I would choose the ex but keep he other two as friends!(:
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Laneyloo · 1 decade ago
me too beautyteen19...and it sucks. espically when they just get in a relationship with someone else.
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beautyteen19 · 1 decade ago
i've loved my ex for about 1 year
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Laneyloo · 1 decade ago
it sucks):
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ashleeyHunn · 1 decade ago
Go with who You like. Because its better to be happy with your choice than be with someone you think you belong with than the one you like
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sjtrue · 1 decade ago
Oh he said they are too pretty!?! Yeah no....tell him off
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icarly26 · 1 decade ago
Not at all, I would be so upset. Probably cry
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Laneyloo · 1 decade ago
Im glad other people agree):
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invisabledinosaurs · 1 decade ago
I'd be offended
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Laneyloo · 1 decade ago
Well he would either say she is way out of my league, or that she is way too pretty.
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cupcake_lover88 · 1 decade ago
idk i would be offended and mad but idk lol(:
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