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FrankConnor · 8 years ago
Hey,
It's been a long time indeed, and I do remember you. I remember almost everyone here.
I still keep tabs on the site, I just don't post anymore. I've had a very tough time the past two years, but I do think I have started to struggle through it. as to where I am now, the best description would be a cliff. Behind me is the world I used to know, the world I grew up in. Ahead of me is nothing but the unknown. But down below, at the foot of the cliff, in the middle of that unknnown, stands a person I trust and love unconditionally, and she says she'll catch me. The world I grew up in was not a good place for me, So I'm getting ready to jump, and that's a good thing, scary as it may be. I see hope in my future. What a bout you? Doing ok?
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Imjustme* · 8 years ago
Scary can be a good thing, no one knows what will happen
but I am sure your future will hold an abundance of happiness
because you truly deserve it as does everyone. It seems crazy how long its been even in the past 5 months since I wrote that I think I have changed. I guess a lot of things happen but I’m okay thanks, I have definitely done a lot of growing up. Both good and bad has happened but I think we all know thats just how life is, just wonder what else it has to bring..
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FrankConnor · 9 years ago
I got a place of my own this year, since I was going to the university... a tiny studio, just a bedroom the size of a shoebox, an even smaller bathroom and a kitchen/living area study area. it was like, really really small, but it was my own spot.

But I wasn't happy there. and since I'm not allowed to be on my own anymore...

you said the councilor is alright :/

so, what does that mean?

is he patient?

does he ask enough questions, but not too many, and if he asks them, are they the right ones?

advice is the least i can do, I just hope it is of some help to you
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FrankConnor · 1 decade ago
I broke down completely in front of my parents, so I'm not allowed to be alone anymore.

I have to sleep with someone, at all times. For the moment, I'm staying at my brothers place, But I guess I won't be returning to my studio any time soon.

and I'm glad you've started councilling.
It can do a lot.
Most depends on the therapist though, if he/she works for you.

Every therapist/councellor/Psychiatrist has a different way of working, and you need to find one that works for you.

Maybe this one will be perfect already, you'll know in a few weeks.

Don't judge them after the first session, wait a few weeks, but if it's not working, don't quit on counceliing, onlly on your councellor, and look for a better one.

I've had 9 therapists until now, and only 3 of them were actually good.
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The Chosen One* · 1 decade ago
I am so sorry
It will get better
This is for the best,okay?

What studio?;-;
Being alone is the worst anyways

Thankyou
I guess it can
Yeah

The councilor is alright:/

Thankyou for the advice.

I'm happy for you
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FrankConnor · 9 years ago
I got a place of my own this year, since I was going to the university... a tiny studio, just a bedroom the size of a shoebox, an even smaller bathroom and a kitchen/living area study area. it was like, really really small, but it was my own spot.

But I wasn't happy there. and since I'm not allowed to be on my own anymore...

you said the councilor is alright :/

so, what does that mean?

is he patient?

does he ask enough questions, but not too many, and if he asks them, are they the right ones?

advice is the least i can do, I just hope it is of some help to you
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FrankConnor · 1 decade ago
It's a quote, from a book.

And it describes you.

The book reminds me of you.

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FrankConnor · 1 decade ago
Fact is, I don't want to die, I just don't enjoy living, at all.

I self harm, because it's a way of coping, and because I lack care about myself.

eating, taking care of myself, even showering, it's all a front, so people think I'm a happy, normal person.

I don't care. I live because my life can make others happier.

My own life isn't of importance.

And even though I know that's a wrong way to think, I still haven't been able to convince myself otherwise.

I'm back in therapy though, so Don't worry.

It was a friendly offer, and maybe I'll take you up on it one day.

You stay strong,

And don't die on me,

Frank
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FrankConnor · 1 decade ago
I do remember you, It's been a while indeed.

I've been horrible, the past few months, but I'm back in therapy, so I'm hoping I'll stabilize again

and you?

how have you been?
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The Chosen One* · 1 decade ago
That makes me so happy,aw
It has been such a long time.


That's terrible,if you need to talk,I'm here.

I've actually starting councilling this week
And well my parents found out about my cutting
And things have been quite wow lately
But I'll be fine,thankyou.

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FrankConnor · 1 decade ago
I broke down completely in front of my parents, so I'm not allowed to be alone anymore.

I have to sleep with someone, at all times. For the moment, I'm staying at my brothers place, But I guess I won't be returning to my studio any time soon.

and I'm glad you've started councilling.
It can do a lot.
Most depends on the therapist though, if he/she works for you.

Every therapist/councellor/Psychiatrist has a different way of working, and you need to find one that works for you.

Maybe this one will be perfect already, you'll know in a few weeks.

Don't judge them after the first session, wait a few weeks, but if it's not working, don't quit on counceliing, onlly on your councellor, and look for a better one.

I've had 9 therapists until now, and only 3 of them were actually good.
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The Chosen One* · 1 decade ago
I am so sorry
It will get better
This is for the best,okay?

What studio?;-;
Being alone is the worst anyways

Thankyou
I guess it can
Yeah

The councilor is alright:/

Thankyou for the advice.

I'm happy for you
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FrankConnor · 9 years ago
I got a place of my own this year, since I was going to the university... a tiny studio, just a bedroom the size of a shoebox, an even smaller bathroom and a kitchen/living area study area. it was like, really really small, but it was my own spot.

But I wasn't happy there. and since I'm not allowed to be on my own anymore...

you said the councilor is alright :/

so, what does that mean?

is he patient?

does he ask enough questions, but not too many, and if he asks them, are they the right ones?

advice is the least i can do, I just hope it is of some help to you
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FrankConnor · 1 decade ago
Sometimes I don't get you.

You never do, that's the whole point.

I just realised why I like this book so much.
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justkiddiing · 1 decade ago
explain yourself
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FrankConnor · 1 decade ago
It's a quote, from a book.

And it describes you.

The book reminds me of you.

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FrankConnor · 1 decade ago
Believe me, I've had an actual stalker once, you're not even close.

So don't worry.

Just don't start calling me in the middle of the night, ok? XD
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FrankConnor · 1 decade ago
Eerlijk gezegd, da vindk nie abnormaal. Als et ne jongen is me wa hersens en wa inzicht in mensen, da merkt ie wel ofda je hem echt graag ziet of nie. Als ie bij u blijft, ist ofwel omda ie gwn zo zot van u is da ie hoopt toch nog een kans bij u te maken, ma da blijft nie duren, want vroeg of laat geven ze toch op, ofwel omda ze ook nie om u geven en der gwn een bonus aan zien.

GY moet gwn leren van emoties te hebben, mooie emoties. Ge hebt een groot hart, ma ge vult et me verdriet en een vorm van zelfmedelijden.

Er is daar plek om echt iemand graag te zien, ma ge wilt et eigenlijk nie, of da gevoel krijg ik toch.

DAmn, ik had echt psychologie moeten kiezen...

achja, als burgie nie lukt...
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justkiddiing · 1 decade ago
kheb mijn soulmate gevonden, we gaan vriendjes worden of hij het nu wilt of niet. myn psych ziet geen probleem meer metmij,ze zegt dat ik niet meer hoef af te komen, dat het goed is nu... ik weet het niet
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FrankConnor · 1 decade ago
Depends on them. They would all feel guilty, yet the way they respond to it may vary. Some will blame you, and make it even worse, others will leave you alone, and even others will apologise, see what they did wrong and try to make up. One of my best friends nearly had me killing myself about 6 years ago. When he found out he completily changed, and He's one of the most loyal friends I have now.

Not all bullies are bad people, some just don't realise the consequences of their actions.

And neither do you deserve to be treated badly.
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*silvergirl* · 1 decade ago
You seen really smart


I have too many scars for a little girl
My friend said they were ugly
My mum said no one could love me

I don't deserve it
But it's better me than someone else
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FrankConnor · 1 decade ago
Wanna talk about it?
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blueskysandarainbow · 1 decade ago
Meh. My boyfriend passed away recently in a car accident and he was like one of the only things that were keeping me sane so it's been very hard
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FrankConnor · 1 decade ago
And I don't think you're stalking me, XD
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FrankConnor · 1 decade ago
I have 5 different math courses this year. And that was the easiest...

I hate college XD
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SkittlesGirl · 1 decade ago
My exam was the easiest too! But I failed anyways :/ sucks. But I'm gonna try harder for my next exams. And thank god you don't think, I'm stalking you XD
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FrankConnor · 1 decade ago
Believe me, I've had an actual stalker once, you're not even close.

So don't worry.

Just don't start calling me in the middle of the night, ok? XD
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FrankConnor · 1 decade ago
I understand. I've been bullied a lot myself, and believe me, al' you need is self confidence and they'll leave. The danger is though that if they see you're starting to step up for yourself, they'll try to break you. Learn to love yourself once more. No one hates themselves from birth. You are beautiful, you are wonderful, you are unique and you are you. Which is something you can be extremely proud of.

Learn that, believe that and accept that, and you've passed the first and biggest hurdle towards healing. It took me about a year of intense therapy to get that far, but I know now that I have a right to exist, to have fun, to live my own life.

And so do you. Don't give up, never lose hope, and never be afraid to ask for help when life's simply to hard to keep up with.

Remember, you're wonderful
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FrankConnor · 1 decade ago
Ocheere. :-(

Ander en beter?
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justkiddiing · 1 decade ago
hij was niet bijzonder, ik zag hem graag, maar ik hield niet van hem, het stoort mij gewoon dat ik mijn finnesse kwijt ben, ik kan ze krijgen maar niet houden...
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FrankConnor · 1 decade ago
Eerlijk gezegd, da vindk nie abnormaal. Als et ne jongen is me wa hersens en wa inzicht in mensen, da merkt ie wel ofda je hem echt graag ziet of nie. Als ie bij u blijft, ist ofwel omda ie gwn zo zot van u is da ie hoopt toch nog een kans bij u te maken, ma da blijft nie duren, want vroeg of laat geven ze toch op, ofwel omda ze ook nie om u geven en der gwn een bonus aan zien.

GY moet gwn leren van emoties te hebben, mooie emoties. Ge hebt een groot hart, ma ge vult et me verdriet en een vorm van zelfmedelijden.

Er is daar plek om echt iemand graag te zien, ma ge wilt et eigenlijk nie, of da gevoel krijg ik toch.

DAmn, ik had echt psychologie moeten kiezen...

achja, als burgie nie lukt...
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justkiddiing · 1 decade ago
kheb mijn soulmate gevonden, we gaan vriendjes worden of hij het nu wilt of niet. myn psych ziet geen probleem meer metmij,ze zegt dat ik niet meer hoef af te komen, dat het goed is nu... ik weet het niet
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FrankConnor · 1 decade ago
6/20. That's 30 % I need 50% to pass.

We don't work with A B and C grades and such.

You get points for the amount of questions you get right.

And I messed up quite badly... It was maths :(.

And I have a lot of math classes
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SkittlesGirl · 1 decade ago
You probably think I'm stalking, but I failed my Maths exam too. Trust me it was the first time I ever failed. And I started crying when I got home.
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FrankConnor · 1 decade ago
And I don't think you're stalking me, XD
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FrankConnor · 1 decade ago
I have 5 different math courses this year. And that was the easiest...

I hate college XD
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SkittlesGirl · 1 decade ago
My exam was the easiest too! But I failed anyways :/ sucks. But I'm gonna try harder for my next exams. And thank god you don't think, I'm stalking you XD
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FrankConnor · 1 decade ago
Believe me, I've had an actual stalker once, you're not even close.

So don't worry.

Just don't start calling me in the middle of the night, ok? XD
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The Chosen One* · 1 decade ago
It's not too far off the goal:))

I see o:
Oh I hate maths xc

OHHH! Just keep trying your best!!
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FrankConnor · 1 decade ago
You're welcome.

I'm glad you're doing good.

And I was quite freaking nervous, but it was because I had not studied enough, and I knew it. Still I didn't think it would be that bad...


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The Chosen One* · 1 decade ago
Yay^.^

Thankyou!!

I bet/:
Well maybe you need to out some things aside and study a little harder,just to you go and pass it,then you can do what you want:)
What grade did you get?
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FrankConnor · 1 decade ago
6/20. That's 30 % I need 50% to pass.

We don't work with A B and C grades and such.

You get points for the amount of questions you get right.

And I messed up quite badly... It was maths :(.

And I have a lot of math classes
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SkittlesGirl · 1 decade ago
You probably think I'm stalking, but I failed my Maths exam too. Trust me it was the first time I ever failed. And I started crying when I got home.
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FrankConnor · 1 decade ago
And I don't think you're stalking me, XD
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FrankConnor · 1 decade ago
I have 5 different math courses this year. And that was the easiest...

I hate college XD
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SkittlesGirl · 1 decade ago
My exam was the easiest too! But I failed anyways :/ sucks. But I'm gonna try harder for my next exams. And thank god you don't think, I'm stalking you XD
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FrankConnor · 1 decade ago
Believe me, I've had an actual stalker once, you're not even close.

So don't worry.

Just don't start calling me in the middle of the night, ok? XD
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The Chosen One* · 1 decade ago
It's not too far off the goal:))

I see o:
Oh I hate maths xc

OHHH! Just keep trying your best!!
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FrankConnor · 1 decade ago
I'm ok.

I failed my exam though.

Really failed.

So I'll have to redo it in june I'm afraid... :/
And how are you doing?
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The Chosen One* · 1 decade ago
That's good!
Oh xc
Don't worry,I'm sure you'll pass it,I bet you were just really freaking nervous D:

Oh,I hate RE-DOS-.-
&im amazing thankyou
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FrankConnor · 1 decade ago
You're welcome.

I'm glad you're doing good.

And I was quite freaking nervous, but it was because I had not studied enough, and I knew it. Still I didn't think it would be that bad...


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The Chosen One* · 1 decade ago
Yay^.^

Thankyou!!

I bet/:
Well maybe you need to out some things aside and study a little harder,just to you go and pass it,then you can do what you want:)
What grade did you get?
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FrankConnor · 1 decade ago
6/20. That's 30 % I need 50% to pass.

We don't work with A B and C grades and such.

You get points for the amount of questions you get right.

And I messed up quite badly... It was maths :(.

And I have a lot of math classes
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SkittlesGirl · 1 decade ago
You probably think I'm stalking, but I failed my Maths exam too. Trust me it was the first time I ever failed. And I started crying when I got home.
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FrankConnor · 1 decade ago
And I don't think you're stalking me, XD
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FrankConnor · 1 decade ago
I have 5 different math courses this year. And that was the easiest...

I hate college XD
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SkittlesGirl · 1 decade ago
My exam was the easiest too! But I failed anyways :/ sucks. But I'm gonna try harder for my next exams. And thank god you don't think, I'm stalking you XD
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FrankConnor · 1 decade ago
Believe me, I've had an actual stalker once, you're not even close.

So don't worry.

Just don't start calling me in the middle of the night, ok? XD
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The Chosen One* · 1 decade ago
It's not too far off the goal:))

I see o:
Oh I hate maths xc

OHHH! Just keep trying your best!!
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FrankConnor · 1 decade ago
So is mine, but It's still capable of surprising me from time to time
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blueskysandarainbow · 1 decade ago
Well its great that you have found something that you feel like you can do. I doubt I'll be doing any exams any time soon, not with everything that's been going on tbh
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FrankConnor · 1 decade ago
Wanna talk about it?
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blueskysandarainbow · 1 decade ago
Meh. My boyfriend passed away recently in a car accident and he was like one of the only things that were keeping me sane so it's been very hard
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FrankConnor · 1 decade ago
You're Welcome
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:)

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