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Hello Beautiful!
This is my secret Witty account. I am here to give girls advice. Comment your problem you want advice on, and I will make a quote answering it. I will write the question then my answer. Then people can comment other advice and give their opinions too. 
  1. Advice_Giver_For_Witty_Girls Advice_Giver_For_Witty_Girls
    posted a quote
    April 27, 2012 3:45pm UTC
    Advice #14
    Problem: I have started to have these thoughts about cutting and suicide and I don't know why. I don't want to kill myself. What do I do?
    My Answer: That is never the answer, trust me. Do you know why you feel like this. If it is about bullying, don't let it have that affect on you, those people don;t matter. The ones who won't judge do. If it is about something else, comment me again. If you have no idea why, then maybe you should talk to someone. I am not saying talk to a parent or teacher or something (yet, if it gets worse maybe you should) All I am saying is tell a close friend, see if she can help you get through this. I know this probably isn;t helpful, but if you can tell me why, I'll try and help more. Stay strong and not matter what you do, don't hurt yourself. YOLO. Don't let it go.
    If anyone else wants to add or say something, please comment! Thanks!
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  2. Advice_Giver_For_Witty_Girls Advice_Giver_For_Witty_Girls
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    April 27, 2012 3:40pm UTC
    Advice #13
    Problem: Me and my bestfriend are growing apart. She barely talks to me now! What did I do wrong?
    My Answer: You did nothing wrong. My best friend and I went through the same thing. I think you should ask her about. Don't be mean or anything, just say something like, "Why aren't we as close as we used to be?" See where that takes you, maybe she needs a wake up call, and you need to be that call.
    If anyone else wants to add or say something, please comment! Thanks!
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  3. Advice_Giver_For_Witty_Girls Advice_Giver_For_Witty_Girls
    posted a quote
    April 27, 2012 3:31pm UTC
    Advice #12
    Problem: I am really quite at school and I don't know why, it isn't me, but it just happens. I just moved here from another country. What is wrong with me? I also get bullied. Help?
    My Answer: First of all, nothing is wrong with you. Don;t let people make you think that about yourself. About the being shy, I know it is really hard being the new girl, trying to make people like you, trying to fit in. I get it. I would just try and talk to people about basic things at first, maybe like their names and what they like to do and stuff. Then you can get deeper into the conversation after you feel more comfortable. Don't worry about what other people think. The ones who matter won't judge you. ABout the bullying, just try and ignore it, or stand up for yourself and tell them to stop. The reason they are probably doing it is to make themselves feel better about themselves. Just don't pay any attention, don't give them the time of day. They don't deserve it. Hope the helps, stay strong.
    If anyone else wants to add or say something, please comment! Thanks!
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  4. Advice_Giver_For_Witty_Girls Advice_Giver_For_Witty_Girls
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    April 27, 2012 3:20pm UTC
    Advice #11
    Problem: I think i might like this guy but I don't really know him that well. Also, I am not really over my ex yet. What shoukd I do?
    Answer: If you think you want to be with your ex, maybe you should go talk to him, face to face, not texting. If you think you are over him though, and don;t want to date him, I would see where things go with the boy you just met. You need to figure out what you want, I can't do that part for you, sorry. Hope this helps.
    If anyone else wants to add or say something, please comment! Thanks!
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  5. Advice_Giver_For_Witty_Girls Advice_Giver_For_Witty_Girls
    posted a quote
    April 27, 2012 3:16pm UTC
    Advice #10 continued again
    Later that night, we had a campfire. He held my hand there, helping me. And, he held it, all the way through. But, he never spoke.
    The next day, we had tree climbing. I did it diffrently, like I do everything else, but it was still hard.
    When I was about half way up, Karissa and Connor had already made it to the top. They were cheering me on, and it made me climb much faster.
    After I was about three fourths up, Karissa had to come down. She stopped when she goth to me, and said, "Go get him.", asnd slid all the way down.
    Connor kept cheering, telling me how close I was, how I could so make it, and I did. He helped me onto his bramch, and held my hand tight, but we still talked like how we used to, about Jenna Marbles, and landsharks, and other stuff. Finally, it was time to come down, and I whispered, "I'm scared."
    He said back, "It's okay, I've got you", and squeezed my hand.
    He held my hand all the way down, halping me when I needed it, and when we were down, led me to my poncho where I laid on my back. After that, he helped my to the cabin.
    Later, it was time to go, and he helped me carry my luggage onto the bus, and saved me a spot next to him. I ended up falling asleep on him, his head around my back, my head on his shoulder.
    When I was about to go home, he gave me a hug.
    We haven't talked since, but only because he wasn't at school. When he comes back, what should I say to him?
    My Answer: Be yourself. Talk about what you want to talk about, maybe how great of a time you had at that camp. That will start a conversation over something both of you enjoyed. By the way, that is so adorable
    If you want to add something or say something, please comment. Thanks!
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  6. Advice_Giver_For_Witty_Girls Advice_Giver_For_Witty_Girls
    posted a quote
    April 27, 2012 3:14pm UTC
    Advice #10 continued
    The next day, we had the zipline. First, you had to climb a pole usind staples. I swore, I couldn't do it, but half my group gathered under it, helping me, and cheering me on. He wasn't with them.
    Problem:
    Finally, I made it to the top. I hestitated a little before sliding off, but I did, finally. Once I made it to the end, I stood on the ladder and a counselor clipped me off the line. Connor was holding onto the ladder in front of me, so I could see him.
    When I was a few feet above him, I looked him straight in his amazing grey/blue eyes, and said, "Don't let me fall, Connor, whatever you do, don't let me fall."
    Holding my gaze, he said steadily, "I won't, I've got you."
    "Promise?" I whisper.
    "I promise." He said.
    I climbed down, holding his gaze the whole time.
    Once I was on solid ground, he didn't say anything to me.
    Will be continued (The last one, I promise)

  7. Advice_Giver_For_Witty_Girls Advice_Giver_For_Witty_Girls
    posted a quote
    April 27, 2012 3:09pm UTC
    Advice #10
    (Please read the whole story, it is so adorable)
    Problem: So, I've been at camp for the week. It's an adventure camp, with team building, and climbing, and stuff. To help you guys understand, I'm disabled. I can't do stuff others do every day, like run in gym, and, honestly, walking from the car to Walmart makes me exausted. So, I knew ahead of time that this camp would be hard, if not impossible.
    My class was seperated into two groups: Group A, with my music/Science teacher, and Group B, with my pricipal. I was in group B with my best friend Karissa, and Connor. Those are basically the only two people that matter.
    Connor and I, we're hard to explain. We joke and banter all the time, but I don't know if I'd really call us friends.
    So, our fist, well, not first, but first that really matters, activity was the High Ropes course. That's where you climb either a wooden ladder-type thing, or a rope ladder tube. I chose the wooden one. It was wooden boards, going criss-cross, about a foot apart, and it went, maybe, seventy five feet up.
    About half way up, I froze. I couldn't move. My group cheered me on, and then I heard him: ""Lauren, you can do this. I'ts all worth it once you get to the top." I repeated this in my head, a constant mantra. Finally, I made it to the top, and took what was called the Leap of Faith, where you jumped down. He was on my 'catch team', the group of people that lowered me to the ground. He didn't come up to me, or anything.
    This will be continued...
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  8. Advice_Giver_For_Witty_Girls Advice_Giver_For_Witty_Girls
    posted a quote
    April 27, 2012 2:57pm UTC
    Advice #9
    Problem: My friends got into a fight about one ditching the other and one thing led to another. The one who apparently ditched the other one wrote a note to her saying what she thought and me and my other friend read it. The girl who got "ditched" said she wasn't even going to read it because we did. Then she acted like nothing happened and I don't think that is right. She was being mean about it because she wasn't even ditched. Advice?
    My Answer: I think that next time something like that happens you should confront her. Don't get all caught up in note passing and everything. Try talking face to face. Even if she seems intimidating, just remember, she is just another person. Let her know how you feel. I hope this helps.
    If you want to add something or say something, please somment. Thanks!
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  9. Advice_Giver_For_Witty_Girls Advice_Giver_For_Witty_Girls
    posted a quote
    April 26, 2012 8:46pm UTC
    Advice #8
    Problem: I like my ex again but he is in love with my best friend (they are not dating) We were on and off last year but don't really talk. Should I start talking to him again? I really like him. This year he asked to be friends with benefits but I said no because I didn't like him. He is a such a good boyfriend when it is for real. What should I do?
    My Answer: Well, that is a tough one. He sounds like he just wanted to use you this year, and that isn't good. If I were you I would start talking to him again but leave the relationship and feelings thing out of it for a while, see what happens. I wouldn't jump right in and tell him how you feel. Be careful, and make sure you know that everything might not work out, but maybe it will. i geuss what I am saying is take a chance, but be cautios about it- and subtle.
    If you want to add something or say something, please somment. Thanks!
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  10. Advice_Giver_For_Witty_Girls Advice_Giver_For_Witty_Girls
    posted a quote
    April 26, 2012 8:40pm UTC
    Advice #7
    Problem: I like on of my best guy friends but he is kind of a jerk. Should I go for it?
    My Answer: Well, that is a tough one. If you are going to go for it, be prepared to be hurt. I am not saying that it won't work out, but from judging what you told me, it sounds like he might be a heart breaker. If you are going to go for it, be prepared that everything may not work out.
    If you want to add something or say something, please somment. Thanks!
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  11. Advice_Giver_For_Witty_Girls Advice_Giver_For_Witty_Girls
    posted a quote
    April 26, 2012 8:35pm UTC
    Advice #6
    Problem: My boyfriend tells me not to cut, but I can't stop. I only have one friend and am not making any new ones.
    My Answer: It doesn't matter how many friends you have. You have those two special people who love you. Your boyfriend and your friend. About the cutting, think about how happy your boyfriend would be if you stopped. Think about how much better if you could say, "That is all behind me now." Think to yourself, I can do this. Set a goal for days to go without cutting. Start at something small and make your way to never. I really hope this helps, im here every step of the way.
    If you want to add something or say something, please somment. Thanks!
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  12. Advice_Giver_For_Witty_Girls Advice_Giver_For_Witty_Girls
    posted a quote
    April 25, 2012 9:26pm UTC
    Advice #5
    Problem: I had liked this guy and heard he liked me so I asked him and he said kinda. When I saw him the next week I asked him out but he said np. I haven't talked to him all year pretty much and it is awkward. I am to shy to talk to him. I still really like him. What do i do?
    My Answer: If you still have his number, send him a text. It is always easier to talk to people when you ahve time to think about what to say. Be like "Hi I haven't talked to you in a while! How are you?" or something like that. Text him and work your way up to talking to him face to face.
    If you want to add something or say something, please somment. Thanks!
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  13. Advice_Giver_For_Witty_Girls Advice_Giver_For_Witty_Girls
    posted a quote
    April 25, 2012 9:12pm UTC
    Advice #4
    Problem: 1. I just moved and I am really shy. What should I do to be less shy? And I think my friend might be using me but im not sure because when I am with my other best friend and we are all there she just hangs out with her but she invites me to do stuff, what do i do?I was also not that nice to all my other friends before I moved and now they don't talk to me but I didn;t realize I wasn't being nice. What do I do?
    My answer: I know what you mean, I get tongue tied too. I just try and think about what the person likes to do and talk about that. If you just met them, ask basic questions to get to know them better. Also, don't be afraid to be yourself.
    About your friends at you new home. If you think one might be using you, ask the other friend about it. Maybe they have known eachother longer and that is just how she is. Maybe your friend will know how to handle her.
    Third, try apologizing. That always seems to help. You are also in a new place now, where you can have a fresh start. Now you know not to be mean. I hope this helps you out.
    If anyone wants to add or say something, just comment. Thanks!
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  14. Advice_Giver_For_Witty_Girls Advice_Giver_For_Witty_Girls
    posted a quote
    April 25, 2012 8:47pm UTC
    Advice #3
    Problem: I want a boyfriend so bad but no one likes me because I am so short. What do I do?
    My Answer: First of all, height doesn't really matter, or it shouldn't. The problem is that you want a boyfriend. Stop looking and just see what happens. When you find the right guy, everything will work out, and he won't think twice about your height. If there is someone you like, just start by being friends, see where things lead.
    If you want to add something or say something, please somment. Thanks!
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  15. Advice_Giver_For_Witty_Girls Advice_Giver_For_Witty_Girls
    posted a quote
    April 25, 2012 8:39pm UTC
    Advice #2
    Problem: Whenever I find a group of friends, they always seem to turn on me, and not be nice, or act like friends. This has happened a few times before. What should I do?
    My answer: I think you should look for a group of girls who are kind of like you. Who share the same interests and things. But also, a group of girls who are nice. I know exactly what kind of girl you are talking about. I also know that every school has that group of girls who are just friends with everyone because they are nice to everyone, try and find that group, and see if you have anything in common. That is what I would do.
    If anyone else wants to add or say something, please comment! Thanks!
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  16. Advice_Giver_For_Witty_Girls Advice_Giver_For_Witty_Girls
    posted a quote
    April 25, 2012 8:32pm UTC
    Advice #1
    Problem: My sister is always putting me down and telling me that I am ugly and will never get any where in life. What do I do?
    My answer: Just don't listen. It isn't true and she has no right to say that. Chances are that she is jealous of you or something, and tries to make herself feel better by being mean.
    If anyone else has something to add or say, please comment! Thanks!
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  17. Advice_Giver_For_Witty_Girls Advice_Giver_For_Witty_Girls
    posted a quote
    April 24, 2012 5:23pm UTC
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    Hello Beautiful!
    This account is for girls to ask for advice. Comment me your problem and I will make a quote stating the problem and then my answer. Other people can comment their opinions on the quote too.
    I am here for all of you.
    <3
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